How To Become A Better Person

You are who you are. No one is going to be like you . And no one can do your work the way you do it.

If you want to improve yourself, you must embrace everything about your life.

Becoming a better you is not going to happen overnight. You have to wait. You have to be patient with yourself.

And you must be willing to take risks. Calculated ones, not reckless ones.

With opportunities come risks, but don’t be afraid to take them.’

When you mess up, don’t blame other people. Hold yourself accountable for your mess. Because ‘lack of accountability in our personal life will certainly lead to problems in our public life.’

Don’t try to be who you are not. Don’t try to do what you are not trained to do. ‘Being who you really are is the first step in becoming better than you are.’

To grow, you have to be intentional.’

If you want to grow yourself, you must have your own plan. Because ‘…if you don’t have a plan for personal growth, then don’t expect to grow!’

Growth happens when you are around the greatest, when you are around people who are better than you are. ‘Being around people who are better than we are has a tendency to make us stretch and improve ourselves.’

Do the right thing.’If you keep doing the right thing, you will continue to gain greater responsibility. And the more responsibility you have, the more tough calls you will have to make.’

Experience teaches nothing, but evaluated experience teaches everything.’

The difference between average people and achieving people is their perception of and response to failure.’

Anytime you ignore reality for the sake of the relationship, you will have problems.’

The acquisition of experience can be costly. But it’s not as costly as not gaining experience.’

Source:

John C. Maxwell (2008). Leadership Gold: Lessosn I’ve Learned from a Lifetime of Leading

How To Embrace Change

Whether you like change or you do not like change, it is happening right now.

If you want to renew yourself, to grow yourself, you have got to embrace change.

How?

You’ll have to deal with the tension between the stability that gives security and the adaptability that opens up opportunity.’

We must be willing to let go of what worked yesterday and learn new ways of seeing, doing, and leading.’

‘… We must stop wishing and start working. Instead of looking for the ‘secret sauce’ of success, we must start sowing seeds of success.’

Don’t hesitate to help another person by sowing a positive seed in his or her life.’

Don’t allow failure to be a bully in your life.’

You must be willing to admit where you’re wrong so that you can discover what is right.’

What you think about yourself determines the investment you will make in yourself.’

No matter what you want to do in life, you have to face reality, and you have to be willing to pay the price required to go uphill.’

Having the right attitude is essential because your actions often carry more weight than your words.’

If you fall down, you should learn from it, get up, and step forward.’

To stand up is to stand out.’

Source:

John C. Maxwell (2019). Leadershift: The 11 Essential Changes Every Leader Must Embrace