Leadership Is Not For Everyone

You are lost in the woods if you think you can have positive and productive and productive impact while ignoring the artistic side of your leadership.’

If you are going to lead, then perhaps learning to be authentic and accept responsibility is the most courageous place to start.’

You must listen to the stories people are telling about you and your culture, and then you must influence the stories.’

As a leader, you need to look reality in the face and accept it.’

Eliminating pretending as an organizational or personal strategy is a critical step to leading courageously.’

‘It’s time to come to terms with the fact that you simply can’t do it all.’

Driving your direct reports into action and encouraging involvement and initiative is critical to building high performance.’

Your presence as a leader relates to the heart and soul of who you are much more than it does to what you do.’

People are not afraid of taking action; they are afraid of what will happen if they take action.’

A courageous leader promotes personal responsibility in the organization.’

‘If you avoid responsibility, responsibility will eventually come back to get you.’

Source:

Mike Staver (2012). Leadership Isn’t for Cowards: How to Drive Performance by Challenging People and Confronting Problems

You Are More Than You Think You Are

You are not going to get everything right. You will make mistakes. You are a human being. If you do not want to make mistakes, you are hiding your real self. Why is that? Because you are not going to grow if you are not willing to challenge yourself, if you are not willing to face your life, if you are not willing to do whatever you can to elevate your life.

You are more than you think you are. Because you are not alive to live an average life. You are alive to live a life, a real life. You are here to face what is ahead of you, to face your own unknown future, to fight the demons within you, to face what you are working toward, and to do the best for your life.

If you don’t think you are more than you think you really are, you are hiding yourself. You are not living your real life.

Life is too short. If you are not living it your way, you are hiding your life. You are not fully representing yourself. You are hurting yourself.

Life is short. If you do not believe in your life, if you do not love what you are doing, what is the point of doing it?

Life is too short. If you want to live your life forward, you must first love yourself.