James Allen said, “Pure happiness is the rightful and happy condition of the soul.” When our minds are clean, when we think about positive things, when we practice the art of forgiveness, we attract happiness into our lives.
When we focus on positive things, we attract happiness. When we focus on negative things, we attract unhappiness. Only happy thoughts can bring happiness to us. Unhappy thoughts cannot make us happy. Our happiness depend on what we think about all day long. If you want your feelings to change, change your thoughts.
When we are happy, we attract other happy people into our lives. We see happiness everywhere we go. When we are unhappy with our lives, we attract other unhappy people into our lives. And we don’t need that. Our lives should be about happiness, not about unhappiness.
“… if a man is happy, it is because he dwells in happy thoughts; if miserable, because he dwells in despondent and debilitating thoughts.”– James Allen
Happiness is a mind business. A mind filled with doubts cannot find happiness. A mind filled with negative thoughts cannot attract positive thoughts into it. They cannot coexist.
If you want to be happy, just choose happiness. No one can make you happy, but yourself. Here is how:
Accept yourself. You cannot find happiness if you don’t accept who you are. You cannot separate your self-esteem and your happiness. They are inseparable. Robert Holden writes, “Your level of self-acceptance determines your level of happiness.” If you don’t like yourself, you won’t be happy with yourself.
Welcome happiness into your life. Happy people attract happiness into their lives. If you want to be happy, you must welcome happiness into your own life. Og Mandino said, “I will welcome happiness because it enlarges my heart.” Happiness is your choice to make. Make it today!
Take responsibility for your own happiness. If you want to be happy, do it yourself. It is your choice. As the saying goes, “Life is a do it yourself project.” Do wait for your spouse to make you happy. Make yourself happy, and your happiness will attract other happy people to you. Just do it yourself!
Accept things the way they are. Change what you can change, and let go of what you cannot change. You cannot change nature. Can you? Don’t even try to do it! Instead of trying to change things, why not explore their beauty?
Live your life with an open heart. If you want to attract happiness into your life, do not keep negative thoughts in your mind. Because a negative mind cannot attract happiness. Only a positive mind has the power to attract positive things. An open mind is a creative mind, a happy mind, a productive mind. It is up to you.
“Happiness is a natural condition of being a person.”- Wayne Dyer
