Tag: Actions

You Can Make Yourself Happy

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Workplace Learning Report
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Do you know who is responsible for your happiness?

Are you waiting for your best friend to make you happy?

Do you think you can make yourself happy?

Do you think your best friend or your government can make you happy?

If you are waiting for people to make you happy, if you are waiting for your boss to make you happy, it is time to change how you see yourself.

Your happiness is in your pocket. Your happiness is in your mind. Your happiness is in your actions. Your happiness is in your thoughts. If you want to make yourself happy, help people, serve others, reach out to the sick, be there for yourself. You can also make yourself happy by staying away from the things that are making you unhappy. For example, if you have a terrible friend, send him or her away.

But if you are responsible for your own unhappiness, it is time to change your mindset.

Happiness comes from you. It comes from your actions. If you want to be happy, if you want to live your life, you must think positive thoughts. Because everything starts with your thoughts.

Never put your happiness in people’s hands. It is dangerous. It is cancerous. It is not going to help you get better,

do better,

live better.

Always remember, you are the only person who can make you happy. No one can do it for you. You can make yourself happy. Try it and see what happens.

Four Things You Must Learn How To Do

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Life is not about us; it is about other people. It is about how we treat other people. We don’t live for ourselves; we live for others.

Herbert Spencer said, “No one can be perfectly free till all are free; no one can be perfectly moral till all are moral; no one can be perfectly happy till all are happy.” Before you take any action, it is important to consider how your action is going to affect other people. Because we are together. We love life. We want to help other people, not to hurt them.

Remember that no one is free until everyone is free. You can free other people. You can do that by lifting other people up, by bringing out the best in other people. To bring out the best in other people, to bring out the best in ourselves, according to Henry Van Dyke, we must learn: “To think without confusion clearly; to love his fellow-men sincerely; to act from honest motives purely; to trust in God and Heaven securely.” If you can do that, you will be able to lift yourself and others up. It is not going to be easy, but you can handle it.