Are You Playing Your Own Game?

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Life is a game. If you want to move forward, if you want to change your life, if you want to create a better future for yourself, you must play your OWN game.

Your game is the only thing that really matters. If you play my game, you are wasting your time.

No matter how easy, how attractive, do not play other people’s games. Do not follow other people’s dreams.

Do you. Do your own dreams. Find ways to make your dreams come alive.

When you are working to make your dreams come alive, when you are playing your game, you are living; you are growing; you are learning.

When you are playing your game, you know what you want. You also know what you do not want. You know what you can do. You also know what you cannot do.

When you are playing your own game, you do not do anything to please anybody.

You live your life based on your values.

When you are playing your own game, you do not lie to yourself. You are dead honest with yourself. You know that lying to yourself is not the way forward. It is the only way to destruction.

When you are playing your own game, you are not afraid to be yourself; you are not afraid to express yourself in your own unique way.

You are just you. ‘You stop being like anyone else entirely.’

And when you are playing your own game, you take 100 percent responsibility for your life. You don’t blame people for where you are. Instead, ‘you start fully embracing the uniqueness that is you.’

If you want to create a better future for yourself, you must embrace yourself. You must treat yourself with love and respect.

Will you?

Is It Important To Know What Your Friends Are Doing?

‘It’s important to have people who hold you accountable and on track, and who you have to answer to; it’s also important to answer to yourself.’- Mick Spencer

Who are your friends? What are they doing? Are they doing anything to improve their lives? If they are doing something, what are they doing?

Because it is important to know what your friends are doing. If you are with people who are not doing anything to improve their lives, what do you think they are going to do to your own dreams?

Are they going to help you grow? Or are they going to help you stay where you are?

Remember, life is not about bad friends. Life is about growth. If you want to grow, you must surround yourself with people who are not scared to tell you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear.

If your friends are not helping you, they are hurting you. To grow, you must put yourself in the right place. If not, you are not going anywhere.

If that is what you want for yourself, then don’t do anything to change your life. But if that is not what you want for your life, you must get rid of people who are holding you back.