Your Life Must Be What You Make Of It

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“Life is a jest; take the delight of it. Laughter is best; sing through the night of it. Swiftly the tear and the hurt and the ache of it, find us down here; life must be what we make of it.”- Edgar Albert Guest, poet

Your life is a gift. You have the power to create the life you want to live for yourself. Do not live your beautiful life for people. It is your life, live it for yourself. But do not ignore other people. If you can’t help people, don’t harm them. Create a better world for yourself. Do it now. Do not waste your time. Use your time to be a blessing to yourself and to the people around you.

The more you bless others, the more blessings you will receive. It is better to bless than to curse. Live your life for yourself. You can do anything with it. Do not limit what you can do with your power, with the power within you. Yes, you have power to create your own life. And that power lives within you. It is not out there. It is within you. If you want to get it, if you want to create your own life, you MUST listen to your heart.

That is the only way. Yes, that is the only way. The problem is, we don’t listen to ourselves. Instead of listening to ourselves, we are busy doing other things that are not helping us. You own your life. Live it. Enjoy it. Do not waste it. Make yourself happy. Do not wait for people to make you happy. Do not wait for people to lead your life for you. They won’t. Because they are busy. They are doing their own things. They are busy creating their own lives.

Do not worry about what comes your way. Whatever comes your way, if you can change it, change it. Do not worry about what you cannot change. Doing that is wasting your time. Whatever happens to you, take it, learn from it, and move on with your life.

How To Avoid Living In A Box

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“They are born, put in a box; they go home to live in a box; they study by ticking boxes; they go to what is called ‘work’ in a box, where they sit in their cubicle box; they drive to the grocery store in a box to buy food in a box; they talk about thinking ‘outside the box’ ; and when they die they are put in a box.”- Nassim Nicholas Taleb, Epistemologist, essayist

What does it really mean to live in a box? Can we live in a box for the rest of our lives? How can we avoid living in a box?

You can get out of the box. It is within your power. You start by figuring out what is important to you, where you are in your life, and where you want to go. Because you can’t get out of the box if you don’t know where you are going. Do not talk yourself into believing that living in a box is all you can achieve in your life. That is not true. You can do more than living in a box. You can do more than getting stuck in a rut. You are better than living in a box.

If getting out of the box is so important to you, you must do whatever it takes to get out of it. Do not do what is not helping you grow. Do not do what is not getting you closer to your goal. Do not let fear stop you from living your true life. Do not let fear stop you from doing your best work. Because if you want the best, you must give the best.

Life is about giving. You get what you give. So if you want to achieve your dreams, you must get out of the box. You do that by challenging the status quo, by doing things differently, by not settling for less than you are worth, by thinking outside the box, and by believing in yourself. You can’t change by doing the same thing. You can’t change by living in the box. Growth doesn’t happen inside the box. Growth happens outside the box. So if you want to grow, you MUST stop living in a box.