Category: Personal Growth

Life is about growth. If you are not growing, then what are you doing?

If You Support Yourself, That Is Good Enough

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Your dream is your dream. Your life is your life. And your future is yours. If you are for yourself, no one can be against you.

If you are for your dreams, no one is going to be against them. Because they are your dreams. Because of that, do not expect everybody to love them, to support them, to nurture them. It won’t happen.

Some will criticize you. Some will call you names. Some will ignore it. Some will even stop talking to you. While others will just wait and see what is going to happen.

Rather than allowing them to demotivate you, why not use their negative words to power yourself to the next level? Do not worry about them. Because they don’t know what they are doing. They don’t know your dreams. They don’t know where you are going. And they are not happy with you. Because you are getting things done. Because you know where you are going.

Whether they are happy with you or not, you are enough. If you are for yourself, if you are for your dreams, if you are for your growth, no one can be against you. So keep being. Keep doing. And keep going. You will get there!

Focus On Where You Are Going

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Comfort is the enemy of growth. Comfort is the enemy of success. And comfort is the root of failure.

If you want to succeed, focus on the journey. Focus on what you are doing. Focus on what you are learning. But if you want to fail, focus on where you are. Focus on what other people are doing. Focus on failure. Focus on what is going to happen to your dreams.

Don’t focus on problems. Focus on solutions. Don’t focus on failures. Because they will happen. There is nothing you are going to do about that. Because they are part of the game.

If you are afraid of failure, then you are not ready for success. Because you can’t succeed without failures, without mistakes.

When it comes success, if you are not failing, you are not trying hard enough. Fail. Do not worry about it. The most important thing is where you are going, your journey.

Do not rest. Keep going. Rest when you are done, not when you are not done.

Is it going to be easy, no. But you can make it. You do that by focusing on the journey, not the end. By focusing on your growth, not your pain. By focusing on the process, not the outcome. The more you focus on where you are going, the better.

Because life is a journey.