Author: Bright Osadiaye

Founder and Editor-at-Large, recruitThebest.org

Do Not Limit Yourself. You Can Do More Than You Think

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development

You are limitless. If you want more, you can do more. If you can do more, you can get more.

It depends on what you want to accomplish for yourself. Success depends on what you want. ‘The goal you decide to tackle does not necessarily have to be world changing. It can be as big or small, as easy or complicated, as you like. The key is that it must be meaningful to you.‘

You are more likely to do well in your life when you do what you love, not what you hate. Because ‘deep down inside, we know that we are limitless. But our brains and the world around us confine us so we remain smaller than we should be.’

You don’t have to accept that. You can change your direction. What you want in your life is different from what the world wants you to have. Don’t believe it. They are lies. If you want to be different, you must do what others don’t want to do.

Success comes from doing what you love. Failure comes from blaming other people for your life. Do not do that. When you blame other people for your past, what is happening in your life, what will happen in the future, you are limiting your power, the power to be you, the real you.

Remember that ‘every experience you’ve had up until this point in your life, including those that have been the most difficult, is an asset when you choose to learn from it.’

That is life. What life gives to you, take it. Do something good with it. Do not blame people for your life. Take responsibility for your life. Taking responsibility for your life is a strength, not a weakness. According to Hal Elrod, ‘It is your responsibility to make the changes necessary to go to next level.’

Your next level. It is right in front of you. If you want to catch it right now, you have got to expand your comfort zone. ‘As you expand your comfort zone, you also expand what’s possible for you.’

And to get out of your comfort zone, you must focus on what you are doing, not where you are going. When you focus on what you are doing, you will know what not to do. You will know what to avoid. It will allow you to really focus on what you are doing, not on what you are going to get.

Remember, according to Hal Elrod, ‘every result is preceded by a process and the key to consistent goal achievement is to stay committed to your process without being emotionally attached to your results.’

Will you do that for YOU? Will you stay committed to your goal?

Source:

Hal Elrod (2019). The Miracle Equation: The Two Decisions That Move Your Biggest Goals from Possible, to Possible, to Inevitable

To Know More, You Must Question More

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Motivational Quotes, Personal Development

If you want to know more about yourself, you must question more. According to Sara Elise, ‘Questioning is the first step in your manifestation work…. It’s a process and a practice that allows you to firmly say, ‘I’m doing the dreaming and deciding for yourself.’

Do not follow the crowd. If you want to stand out, you must question everything. ‘Questioning everything is another step to creating a life for yourself beyond the realms of these structures, beyond the realms of what other people have dreamed and decided for you.’

Whatever you want in your life, you can seek it out yourself. Do not put your life at risk. Decide for yourself. Ask real questions. The more questions you ask, the better for you.

Because ‘questioning everything is about shaking things up, shaking loose our mental bondage.’ You have got to do that. Do not believe the lies that you have been telling yourself. You must shake them off. You must focus on what is going on in your life right now, what you are trying to accomplish right now.

‘Questioning is about getting a snapshot of the current situation so that you can properly assess it.’

You are not going to know what is going on around you if you do not have the courage to question yourself, to hear yourself, and to have the courage to ask real questions.

‘Questioning ourselves provides the foundation for understanding ourselves, assessing our needs, and then being able to communicate them to others.’

But know this: ‘Questioning everything is not permission for being inconsiderate, hurt, or self-absorbed or for going only where you feel a rush of excitement and adrenaline, because then you are creating space only for addiction, numbing, and immediate satisfaction.’

Remember, if you want to know more about things, ask more questions.

Source: Sara Elise (2023). A Recipe for More: Ingredients for a Life of Abundance and Ease