How Complaining Is Hurting Your Life

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“People won’t have time for you if you are always angry or complaining.”-

Stephen Hawking, theoretical physicist

It is easier to complain about everything than to take responsibility for everything. Stop complaining about what is not working for you. Stop focusing on the negative things in your life. We all have things to think about. But how we think about them is what make all the difference.

Stop complaining. You can change that. You have the power to do it. According to Gandhi, “Be the change you want to see in the world.” Yes, be the change you want to see in your life. If you don’t make the decision to change, to stop complaining, to start living, you are not going to move forward in your life. If you keep complaining about your life, you health, your work, your boss, where you are, you won’t get to your destination. Because the more you complain, the less you get. The more you complain, the more you will have to complain about.

The more you complain, the less you get. But the less you complain, the more you get. Look, my friend, don’t complain. It is not helping you. It is stealing your happiness away. You can’t be happy and complain at the same time. Be a happy person.

Instead of complaining about everything that is working or not working in your life, why not focus on what is working for you in your life. Whether you want to admit it or not, you have lots of things that are working for you. Write down the things that are working for you and celebrate them every day. The more you celebrate them, the more you will have to celebrate. Don’t be a complainer, be a celebrity.

If you want to stop complaining, you must focus your thoughts on the good things in your life. Don’t complain about anything. No matter what is happening in your life, don’t see yourself as a loser, see yourself as a warrior. You are not a victim, but a victor. You must accept your situation for what it is. Don’t try to change what you can’t change. Don’t complain about what you can’t change. What will change will change. What will not change will not change. So why are you complaining about the unchangeable?

Instead of complaining about your failures, take responsibility for your life, for your failures, for your challenges, and for your greatness. It is your life. You can make it how you want it. If you want to live your life to the fullest, complaining is not the way. Complainers never win. If you want to win, stop complaining. Are you ready to do that?

The Striving For Happiness

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Happiness is a natural thing. It is not for sale. Money can make you comfortable, but can’t buy you happiness.

Happiness is a natural business. If you understand the law of nature, you will understand the law of happiness. The law of happiness is simple: “Don’t find me, I am already in you.”

Your happiness is in your own hands. It is not in my hands. It is not in your partner’s hands. It is not in your teacher’s hands. It is not in your employees’ hands. It is in your own hands.

“Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness.”- Zhuang Zhou

It is your business to make yourself happy. Yes, you can make yourself happy. But before you can make yourself happy, you must do two things:

Don’t look for happiness. Why? Because you can never find what is already inside you elsewhere. If you have the courage to just stop and do the right things, happiness will come to you.

Accept yourself. We cannot be happy if we don’t accept who we are. If you are really looking for happiness, this is the place to start. Forget about what you have been telling yourself. You must change your mind about yourself. You must change your mind about your situation. You must start to think positive thoughts. Only positive thoughts bring happiness.

Now is the time to focus on your uniqueness. Accept your strengths. Accept your weaknesses. Don’t see yourself as a loser. See yourself as a winner. Once you are able to do that, happiness will come to you.

“You are the only person on earth who can make you happy.” Do it now!