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The Striving For Happiness

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Happiness is a natural thing. It is not for sale. Money can make you comfortable, but can’t buy you happiness.

Happiness is a natural business. If you understand the law of nature, you will understand the law of happiness. The law of happiness is simple: “Don’t find me, I am already in you.”

Your happiness is in your own hands. It is not in my hands. It is not in your partner’s hands. It is not in your teacher’s hands. It is not in your employees’ hands. It is in your own hands.

“Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness.”- Zhuang Zhou

It is your business to make yourself happy. Yes, you can make yourself happy. But before you can make yourself happy, you must do two things:

Don’t look for happiness. Why? Because you can never find what is already inside you elsewhere. If you have the courage to just stop and do the right things, happiness will come to you.

Accept yourself. We cannot be happy if we don’t accept who we are. If you are really looking for happiness, this is the place to start. Forget about what you have been telling yourself. You must change your mind about yourself. You must change your mind about your situation. You must start to think positive thoughts. Only positive thoughts bring happiness.

Now is the time to focus on your uniqueness. Accept your strengths. Accept your weaknesses. Don’t see yourself as a loser. See yourself as a winner. Once you are able to do that, happiness will come to you.

“You are the only person on earth who can make you happy.” Do it now!

Try Again

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Try again. Try again. There is success in trying again. There is courage in trying again. There is hope in trying again. Try again. Never stop trying again. Because you can’t live your life without falling down.

Whenever you drop to the ground, never stay there, keep going. Keep trying. If you fail at something, don’t call yourself a loser, call yourself a learner.

“Ever tried. Ever Failed. No matter. Try again. Fail again. Fail better.”- Samuel Beckett, Irish novelist

If you at first you don’t succeed at something precious to you- your goals, your dreams, your relationships with yourself and others, your medical exam, your driving test, try again. Try again. You can’t win if you don’t try again.

You can do it if you try again. You can’t go through life without running into trouble. Many. You can’t go through life without falling down. Many. When you fail, when you fall, when you make a mistake, try again. Don’t quit. Because you are not a quitter, you are a winner. You are not a victim, you are a victor. You are not loser, you are a winner. You are not a loser, you are a learner. You are not fat, you are free. You are not negative, you are nice. You are not a lonely person, you are a learning person. You are not a failure, you are success.

You can be it if you believe you can. Don’t tell yourself negative things. Always tell yourself positive things. As William Edward Hickson put it, “If at first you don’t succeed, try, try again.” No matter how hard, don’t quit, don’t give up, don’t surrender, don’t go home until you succeed. Why? Because there is victory in trying again. So if you want to be victorious, you must always try again.

If you fail at something, don’t quit, try again. If you fail your job interview, try again. If you fail your presentation, try again. If your business is not making money, if your business is not changing lives, if your business is not adding value to your life, try again.

The point here is: NEVER STOP TRYING AGAIN!