The Striving For Happiness

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Happiness is a natural thing. It is not for sale. Money can make you comfortable, but can’t buy you happiness.

Happiness is a natural business. If you understand the law of nature, you will understand the law of happiness. The law of happiness is simple: “Don’t find me, I am already in you.”

Your happiness is in your own hands. It is not in my hands. It is not in your partner’s hands. It is not in your teacher’s hands. It is not in your employees’ hands. It is in your own hands.

“Happiness is the absence of the striving for happiness.”- Zhuang Zhou

It is your business to make yourself happy. Yes, you can make yourself happy. But before you can make yourself happy, you must do two things:

Don’t look for happiness. Why? Because you can never find what is already inside you elsewhere. If you have the courage to just stop and do the right things, happiness will come to you.

Accept yourself. We cannot be happy if we don’t accept who we are. If you are really looking for happiness, this is the place to start. Forget about what you have been telling yourself. You must change your mind about yourself. You must change your mind about your situation. You must start to think positive thoughts. Only positive thoughts bring happiness.

Now is the time to focus on your uniqueness. Accept your strengths. Accept your weaknesses. Don’t see yourself as a loser. See yourself as a winner. Once you are able to do that, happiness will come to you.

“You are the only person on earth who can make you happy.” Do it now!

Until You Value Yourself

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Until you value yourself, no one will value you. Until you value yourself, the world cannot help you. When you add value to your life, people will add value to your life. You get back what you give out.

M. Scott Peck said, “Until you value yourself, you won’t value your time. Until you value our time, you will not do anything with it.” You can add value to your life in many ways.

You can add value to your life by accepting yourself- your strengths and your weaknesses. This is important because if you don’t accept your weaknesses, you are going to have a hard time accepting your life. Your weaknesses are part of your life. So to live a healthy life, you must accept your weaknesses.

You can add value to your life by thinking positively about your life. You cannot go around saying negative things about yourself and expect to have a positive life. That is not going to be possible. When you think positively about your life, you will attract positive things into your life. As you go around telling yourself negative things, you are not only reducing your own life, you are preventing yourself from enjoying your life.

“Value yourself.”

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Until you see yourself as a unique human being, you will never be happy. You can change that. You can make yourself happy by loving yourself, by accepting yourself, by accepting your mistakes, by improving yourself. It is important to focus on your greatness. If you don’t focus on your greatness, you will prevent yourself from achieving your purpose in life.

Until you value your life, you will never know how to live your life. You will always chase other people’s dreams. You will always run around trying to be who you are not. Do not do that. Always find a way to add value to your life every day. Always find a way to add value to other people. It takes a great person to add value to other people. Remember, we get what we give out.

What are you sending out?