Tag: Thinking Big

Are They Really Thinking About You?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

‘The only person thinking about if other people are thinking about you is you?’- Lia Garvin

No, they are not. They are not thinking about you. They are not after you. They are not after what you are doing. They are not after where you are. They are not after your failures, your mistakes. They are not.

Get over it. Do not dominate your life with other people’s opinions of you. Do not focus on what people are saying about you. It is not going to help you. It is going to hold you back from actually taking care of your life.

Do not waste your energy. It takes a lot of energy to think about what others are thinking about you. What if they are not thinking about you? What if they are just doing their own things? What if….?

Live your life. Focus on what is on your plate. Focus on what you are doing. Do not focus on what is not even happening. If you think other people are thinking about you, you are the one.

Think About These Things

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Think. Think about what? Thing about things. Because we are thinkers. We never stop thinking. Why not think about good things?

Think about yourself. Ask yourself, ‘What am I doing here? Am I growing?’

Think about love. Ask yourself, ‘Am I in love with myself?’

Think about change. Ask yourself, ‘What does change mean to me?’ Remember, to change where you are, you have got to change how you see yourself.

Think about your friends. Ask yourself, ‘Am I with the right people?’

Think about your future. Ask yourself, ‘Am I preparing for my future? What am I doing right now to secure my future?’

Think about the world. Ask yourself, ‘What am I doing right now to make the world a better place? Am I adding value to the world, or am I stealing from the world?’

The question is, ‘What are you thinking about right now?’