Tag: Stop worrying

Rejection Is Not About You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

You are not wasting your time. You are not playing with your life. You are where you are supposed to be. Whatever it is that is going on in your life, do not forget who you are. Do not give in to fear. Do not give in to what others are saying about you. If you do not listen to them, it won’t affect you.

If you are not getting what you want, do not worry about it. It is not about you. It is not about what you can do or what you cannot do. Because it is not. Because rejection is NOT about you. It is about what you are doing. When you are faced with issues, do not stop there. Ask yourself some hard questions. Do not give in to rejection. Because it is not about you.

Rejection is your learning platform. It is your way forward. Yes, it is not easy to feel rejected. It is okay. That is life. If you want to live your life, rejection is the way. Be okay with it.

Why You Shouldn’t Wait For The Perfect Time

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

When it comes to your life, there is no perfect time to make it better. Every second is your perfect time. Every minute is your perfect time. Every hour is your perfect time. Every day is your perfect time. Every week is your perfect time. Every month is your perfect time. And every year is your perfect time.

Why not create your own perfect time? Because you are the only person who can do it for you. If you are waiting for the perfect time, you are going to wait forever. Now is your perfect time.

In the words of Tom Oliver, ‘You create the ideal circumstances by making the decision first, then being open to opportunities that life will present you with.’

To get what you want in your life, you must decide. You must make the decision to go after it, no matter what. Make the decision. Don’t hide behind fear. Once you have the courage to say yes to your dreams, fear will disappear.

If you don’t decide, your dreams won’t happen. According to Tom, ‘The ideal circumstances for reaching your goal will come after you have made your decision, not before.’

Whatever it is that you want to plant, it is time to start. Now is the best time to start. If not now, when do you think you are going to do it?

Go for your dreams. You don’t have to know what you are doing before you start. Just start! Tom said, ‘You don’t even need to know what the next step will be.’ Now is not the time to start worrying about the next step. To move your car, you must start your engine. To grow your life, you must plant yourself in a place where you can grow.

And to create your best time, you must decide. Why not now? If not now, when are you going to do it?