Tag: Self-love

Be Comfortable With Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

When things are tough, be comfortable with yourself. When you are tired, feel like giving up, be comfortable with yourself. When you are tired of explaining your values to others, those who don’t understand you, be okay with yourself. When people are not who you think they are, be comfortable with yourself. When you are the only person in the room fighting for those who cannot fight for themselves, be comfortable with yourself.

Because people are counting on you. If you are not comfortable with yourself, you won’t be able to fight for those who can’t fight for themselves. If you are not able to take a tough stand against a popular but not helpful issue, the world will suffer.

Don’t let that happen. Because being comfortable with yourself means self-love. It means you are okay with yourself, regardless of what is going on in the world. It means you see opportunities, not problems. It means you are happy with what you have. It means you know where you are, what is going on, and what you are going after.

Before you go, remember, being comfortable with yourself is self-love.

Why You Should Never Joke With The Love You Have For Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Self-love is what you need. You don’t need love from anywhere. If you do not love yourself, if you do not take care of your life, of your work, of those who are for you, then don’t expect to get it from anywhere.

People are not selfish. They are just doing their own things. They are taking care of their own things, their own lives.

So if you want other people to even see you as a human being, you must first do it for yourself. You must respect who you are, no matter what. You must stop beating yourself up for nothing.

You must learn to be there for yourself when no one cares, when people are not nice to you.

Do not worry about what is not worth your time. Create space for yourself. Make time to love, to play with yourself. Stop doing too much. Productivity is not about doing too much. It is about loving what you do. It is about spending your time wisely.

It is about doing more with less. It is about spending time with quality people. It is about doing quality work with quality people.

If you are really serious about taking care of your life, then you must be comfortable with yourself.

The question is, ‘How comfortable are you with yourself?’