How To Increase Your Value In A Place Where People Don’t Value You

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You cannot control other people, but you can take care of yourself. People will always be people.

If you are in a place where people don’t treat other people as human beings, it is not about you. It is not about your work. It is not about who you are. It is about them. It is about the place, the culture.

Do not let that bother you. Do not even pay attention to it. When you are there, just focus on what is good about the place. Find something that makes you happy. And focus on that.

When you are disrespected, do not fight back. The best way to respond is to make yourself better, is to increase your worth. Instead of reacting to what is going on around you, use your energy to increase your worth.

Do things that will make you happy. Follow your path. Do not let what is going on in your current place stop you from reaching your future goals.

People will always be people. We are different. If you can make the situation better, give it a shot. If not, then do not waste your time on what is not going to add value to your life.

If you think that it is not going to get better, then you have got to look for a place where people will value you, where people will respect you, where you can add value to people and to yourself.

You have got to keep growing your life. If where you are is not suporting you, you have got to take charge of your life.

Do not wait for anyone to come and help you. The good news is: no one is coming to help you. You have got to help yourself. Because you can help yourself. Because your life is your life. If you are not in charge, someone else is.

Do not go there. Do not let that happen to you. Move your life forward. When you walk away from a terrible place, God is taking you to a new place, a place where you can bring out the best in yourself, a place where you can express your true self.

Do not stuck yourself in a place where people are just nasty, where people are living a fear-based life. If you stay, you are going to start acting like them. Do not go there, my friend. It is a bad situation to be in.

If you want to grow, you must keep going. Do not force people to stay in your life. Your life is better than forcing yourself to stay in a place where you are not valued.

If you do not treat yourself with love, no one is going to treat you with love. If you tolerate abuse, they will give you more. If you do not walk away from an abusive situation, you will never find your happiness.

And you will continue to look for your real self. Is that you?

When Something Is Still Missing

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When nothing is working, when you are doing everything in your life to make things better, when you are not happy with your life, when you are just getting by, when you are trying to fit in, something is still missing.

You are not where you are supposed to be. You are not doing what you are supposed to be doing. You are not with the right people. Your values are different from what you are doing.

They are not aligned. They are not who you are. You are not getting what you want because your values and your work are not aligned.

You are not happy because you are not making your soul happy. What you are doing is different from what you really care about.

You are always exhausted because you are not following your heart. Your heart is starving for love. Your life is empty.

That is not your life. It is not your real life. You can do better than that. You are not here to settle for less.

And that is what is happening to you right now. If you don’t like it, if you don’t like what you are getting, it is time to make some changes in your life.

According to Ananthoj, ‘Unless you set direction and goals, you cannot achieve anything in life.’

If you want things to get better for you, do not complain. Do something about it. Whatever it is that is eating you alive, you can change it.

Make some changes in your life. You can change. You can move. You can redirect yourself.

Do not wait for anyone to do it for you. Because it is your life, not theirs. To start, you must know what you want, where you are going, and how you are going to get there.

You must be your own driver. Why is that? Because they don’t know what you really want. Because your dreams are personal. They are uniquely yours.

You can change your life by changing your thoughts. When you change your thoughts, your action will follow.

If you are not happy with your life, ask yourself some questions. Don’t ignore your feelings. Because your feelings are your messengers.

If you are with the wrong people, if you are not happy with them, especially when you are with them, you don’t have to continue with them. Make sure you do it with respect.

It is better to be with yourself than to be with people who don’t care about you.

Remember, if you do not take care of yourself, no one is going to be there for you. It is your life.