Rejection Is Not About You

You are not wasting your time. You are not playing with your life. You are where you are supposed to be. Whatever it is that is going on in your life, do not forget who you are. Do not give in to fear. Do not give in to what others are saying about you. If you do not listen to them, it won’t affect you.

If you are not getting what you want, do not worry about it. It is not about you. It is not about what you can do or what you cannot do. Because it is not. Because rejection is NOT about you. It is about what you are doing. When you are faced with issues, do not stop there. Ask yourself some hard questions. Do not give in to rejection. Because it is not about you.

Rejection is your learning platform. It is your way forward. Yes, it is not easy to feel rejected. It is okay. That is life. If you want to live your life, rejection is the way. Be okay with it.

Is Where You Are The Right Place For You?

Successful people attract other successful people. Why do you think that is? Why not the other way around? Successful people are around other successful people because they want

to continue to grow, to expand their social connections,

to continue to ask real questions, to meet other people who are very hungry,

to challenge themselves, and to live well.

Because success is attractive. If you want to better yourself, you must hang out with those who are doing interesting things. Don’t hang out with people who are just happy with what they are doing, who are not interested in growth, who are scared of leaving what they are used to.

Look, success is not what you cannot make. You can, but you have got to be willing to do the work, to challenge yourself. Success is not going to happen in your life if you just continue to do what you have always done. If you want to experience something new in your life, you have got to step out.

When you step out, you will start to attract new things into your life. Success won’t happen if you are not in the right place.

What is the right place? The right place is where you are free to challenge yourself.

The right place is where growth is possible. It is where you are free to challenge the status quo, where people are willing to help you when you need help.

The right place is where people are friendly, real friendly. The right place is where you are safe to talk about what you are going through in your life, where you can seek help, without the fear of rejection from colleagues.

The right place has problems, but they know how to deal with them.

That is why the right place is where people want to be, want to work. If you want to be successful, where you are matters.

If where you are is not doing it, is not supporting you, if you are just there, just killing time, you had better leave. If you stay, nothing is going to happen.

The question is, ‘Is where you are the right place for you? If you are not feeling it, ‘What are you doing to make your life better?