Listening Requires This From You

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What lovely, larger life becomes ours when we listen to one another.’– Naomi Shihab Nye

We get better when we listen to one another. We connect with other people when we listen. If you want to hear what others are saying, you must listen.

Listen. Listen. Love happens when we listen. Happiness increases when we listen. Listening is a mind builder.

Understanding does not occur when we try to intercept what someone wants to say to us by claiming we already know it.’- Hans- Geog Gadamer

Listening is more than just nodding your head. It is more than waiting to say something.

Listening requires your presence. If you are not there, you won’t hear what the other person is saying.

To know what is going on in your life, you must listen to yourself. If you want to know what is going on around you, you must listen.

If you are interested in what your people are doing, you must listen to them.

If you listen, you will hear. If you don’t, you won’t.

When you listen, you make people feel better about themselves. You are less likely to cause anxiety, pain, rejection, or resentment.

You can’t feel others if you don’t listen. According to Eckhart Tolle, ‘You cannot feel someone else’s Being except through your own.’ If you want people to feel your Being, you must listen to them. You can do it.

You Exist

Wherever you are, you exist. If you have the courage to see yourself, to love yourself, to feel yourself, to feed yourself, to learn more about yourself, that is good enough.

You are not a burden to anybody. You are a gift, not a burden. If people don’t see you, it is not about you. it is about them.

Don’t give in to people’s opinions. Remember that you are not here to please people. You are not here to live other people’s lives.

You are here to live your life, to make a difference. If you are with people who do not value your presence, you must leave. It is not the right place for you.

If you want peace in your life, don’t surround yourself with people who don’t value you. Remember, you don’t need permission from them to live yourself.

You need you to live your life. You need your heart to live your life. You need your soul to live your life.

Don’t wait for someone to love you. Don’t wait for someone to respect your life. If you are not comfortable with some people in your life, let them go. You are enough. YOU ARE ENOUGH!!!!