"If you have a powerful yes,
you'll find a way to make it happen.
A passionate yes makes it very hard
for people to say no to you."- Gezim Gashi
Do you have a powerful yes?
How powerful is it?
To be successful in your own life,
don't worry about how many nos
you have received in your life.
They don't matter.
All you have to do is learn from them.
Rejections have lessons.Follow the lessons, not the rejections.
People do not reject you. It is not about you.
They are not happy with what you are selling.
Just know that rejection is not about you,
but about what you are selling.
If you want to grow, you must be comfortable with rejection letters.
You must be comfortable with lots of nos.
And they will continue to come.
When you hear no, then it means you are
getting closer to where you are going to be.
It means you are trying.
It is means something is about to happen.
Just be patient with yourself,
And victory will come.
To hear yourself, you must pay attention to what you are saying to yourself. Stop saying negative things to yourself. If you do not know what to say to yourself, just say, “I am love myself.” That is good enough.
Pay attention to your words. They are powerful. They can hurt you. If you do not want your own words to hurt you, attention is key.
Here is why:
According to Edith Eger, “What you pay attention to grows stronger. Spend a day listening to your self-talk.Is it full of “I should,” “I shouldn’t,” and “yes, but”? Do you tell yourself, “It’s my fault,” or “I don’t deserve it,” or “It could have been worse”? Replace these messages of guilt or shame with a daily practice of kind and self-talk. As soon as you walk up in the morning, go to the mirror and look at yourself with loving eyes. Say, “I’m powerful. I’m kind. I’m a person of strength.” Then kiss yourself on the back of your hand. Smile at yourself in the mirror. Say, “I love you.”
Yes, love yourself. If you do not have the courage to love yourself, to say, “I love you,” then you have got a lot of work to do.
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