Tag: Personal Development

Are You Really Comfortable In Your Comfort Zone?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development
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What are you doing to change your life, to change your situation? Are you doing what you love to do?

If not, what are you doing to get to where you want to be, to get what you want to get?

You have to act. Because no action, no growth.

If you are not where you are supposed to be, then you have got to do something. Do not wait for anyone to do it for you. Because no one is coming.

If you want to grow, you have got to take charge of your life. You have to be honest with yourself. Do not deceive yourself.

If something is growing, say it. If nothing is working, say it. Then go out there and ask for help.

Do not hide in your comfort zone. Because your comfort zone is not your friend. It is your enemy. It makes you comfortable for a day. But it is taking a lot from you.

When you are in your comfort zone, you stop growing. That is not who you are. That is not who you are becoming. If you want to change your life, it starts with you.

You have got to challenge yourself. Keep asking real questions. You must raise your standards. Do not settle for less. Don’t! Do what you can with what you have. It is better to try. If you do not try, you will never grow.

And if you love growth, you must leave your comfort zone.

As always, you are more, not less!

This Is Your Inner Strength

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development
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Respect your uniqueness. Always celebrate who you are. You are in charge of your life. Don’t give in to what people are saying about you. Whether people like you or not, that is okay. If they don’t like who you are, how you do your things, how you treat yourself, that is not your problem. What they are saying about you has nothing to do with you. But it has everything to do with them.

When you are doing your things, when you are living your life, do not expect some people to like you. What they want you to do is forget who you are, to go along, to follow them to wherever they are going.

Do not do that! Because you are here to make a difference, to touch other people’s lives. You are not here to make people happy, to please everybody.

If you do not have the courage to celebrate your uniqueness, you are not helping yourself. You are helping other people get better, not you.

The only way to find your true self, to celebrate who you are is to respect your uniqueness. Your specialness.

According to Joyce Meyer, ‘The things in your life that make you different aren’t hinderances … they are assets.’

Do not try to change how you look. Because God doesn’t care about how you look. God cares about your heart.

If you do not have a healthy heart, your possessions don’t matter. The best way forward, according to Brianna Wiest, ‘You owe it to yourself to determine the kind of person you want to be and how that person will allow themselves to be treated.’

Before you go, as always, let me ask you these questions. ‘What do you think about yourself? How do you feel about who you are? Do you ever compare yourself with other people and feel belittled if you can’t do what they can do or be like them?’ Don’t!!!!

Be you. Remember, You are more, not less!