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Is Life Wrong?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘Society makes everything look perfect and binary, so imperfect and complex feel wrong. Life is imperfect and non-binary, but life isn’t wrong.’– Steven Bartlett

Nothing is perfect. Everything is imperfect. If you are a perfect human being, congratulations!

In reality, nothing is perfect. You are not perfect. Your thoughts are not perfect. Your world is not a perfect world. Your colleagues are not perfect. Your partner is not perfect. Society is not perfect. Your boss is not perfect. Nothing is perfect.

If you want to find your true happiness, you must accept your life as it is.

Why? Because nothing is perfect. Life is worth living. But don’t expect it to be a perfect one.

Society says, everything is perfect.’ I say, ‘Nothing is perfect.’ Society says, ‘imperfect and complex feel wrong.’ I say, ‘imperfect and complex feel right.’

If you are not perfect, that is okay. That is how it is supposed to be. If you are perfect, you are not doing enough. If you want to grow, you must accept your flaws.

And remember that life is not perfect, … ‘but life isn’t wrong.’

Why Every Moment Matters

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘Man is but a passing flame….’- George MacDonald

According to George MacDonald, ‘Man is but a passing flame….’ That is true.

Life is passing. Whether we are living well or not, life is passing. It is not going to wait for you. It is certainly not going to wait for anyone, not even me.

And that is why we should never joke with our lives. That is also why we should live our lives to the fullest.

All we have is now, right now, right where you are, not later, not tomorrow, not next week.

Don’t use this moment to worry about your past mistakes. Don’t go there!

Instead of reliving your past mistakes, your past failures, your past disappointments, why not use it to explore new opportunities?

Why not use it to love yourself even more? Why not use it to connect with other great people in your life?

Why not use it to enjoy a great book, a hot cup of coffee?

Why not use it to do what you have always wanted to do? Why not use it to go to where you have always wanted to go? Why not?

Why not? You deserve it. Give it to yourself. You deserve to be here. Live your life really well. Do not try to fix your life, just live it.

Remember, no one is perfect. You are not alone in your fight. So whatever it is that is bothering you, you can face it.

All you need to do is to believe in yourself. Remember, ‘You are not alone.’