Failure Is Not The End

Success and failure are friends. You cannot separate them. If you want success, then you must embrace failure.

Why is that? Because success comes after failure. Growth happens after mistakes.

That is why you should not be afraid to fail. Yes, it is not comfortable. It is embarrassing. It makes you look stupid.

It is okay. If you want to succeed in your life, you cannot stop it from happening. You cannot stop failure from visiting you.

When it happens, to move forward, embrace what happened. Do not try to keep it from other people, especially those who can help you.

If they can help you learn from your failure, then bring them in. Do not be too big to learn from other people.

Just because you are not where you are supposed to be, that doesn’t mean you are a failure. No, you are not. You are a learner. You are on a journey, a journey that will never end.

Because failure will never stop.

Remember, failure is not about you. It is about getting better. It is about trying new things.

According to Maulana, ‘… failure is no disaster, for it only serves to make one into a more profound, thoughtful person.’ I agree. If you want to improve yourself, you must embrace failure.

To do that, when you fail, just see it as an opportunity to learn more about what you are doing, to ask more questions, to learn more about yourself, and to learn more about the world around you. And it is.

Let Go Of Worry: Focus On Success

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Be patient with yourself. Because great things take time to create. Do not focus on what is not working.

If you want to make a difference in the world, you have got to be comfortable with making lots of mistakes.

That is how we can make things happen. If you don’t want to mess up, you will never grow. You have got to mess up to grow up. Because if you don’t want to mess up, you will never go up. You will never grow up.

And that is not where God wants you to be. God wants you to grow. To make God proud, you have got to stop worrying about what you cannot control.

Worrying about what you cannot control, worrying about your past experiments that did not work out, it is a waste of time.

Instead of dwelling on waste, why not on success? Because you have so many things to be grateful for.

Why not focus on them? Why not celebrate your life? Why not?

If you want to move forward in your life, in your work, you have got to let go of what is not helping you. If not, you are not going anywhere.