Tag: Living

Whatever You Are Looking For, You already Have

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Photo by vlada Karpovich

Stop searching for what you already have. You must focus on what you already have. Do not live your life by fear. Allow yourself to live your life to the fullest. You can live your life with what you already have. Don’t wait for what you don’t have. It will never come. Instead of waiting for what is not there, why not nurture what you have. Stop searching for what is not there. Life is not about searching for what is not there; it is about loving and appreciating what you already have. It is about celebrating what is there. Stop trying to make yourself happy. You are already a happy person. Just focus on what is going well for you. Just think happy thoughts. Just remove all negative thoughts from your mind. Searching for what is not there brings no joy, no value to your life. Live your life. Accept your life. Accept yourself for who you are. Accept yourself for who you are becoming. Remember, what you are searching for, you already have. You just have to connect with yourself. You just have to allow your life to blossom. You just have to allow the happiness within you to exist. If you can do that, everything is within your reach.

What To Do When You Don’t Get What You Want

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Photo by Anete Lusina

You cannot separate failure from success. Life is not about success; it is about learning from your failures. Do not reduce your mind. Because if you don’t try something new, you are not going to grow. When you do your work, you must not be afraid of failure. Failure is part of growth. Look, when you are trying to get things done, when you are trying to learn something new, or trying to become the true you, you are not going to get it right the first time. Whether you get it right or wrong, do not let the fear of failure stop you from living your life. When you fail, celebrate it, learn from it. Do not worry about failure, worry about not doing anything to change your situation. You matter. Your situation matters. Your life matters. Do not delegate your life. Do not be too hard on yourself when you fail. It is not your fault. You are just trying to change yourself. But you must be brave to conquer your fears. Be brave when you fail. It is going to happen. You cannot stop it. The only way you can stop yourself from failing is to stop living. If you don’t get it right the first time, do it again. When it comes to failure, you can always do it again. But don’t make it a habit. Because failure is not your name.