Tag: learning

Moving Away From Your Past Failures

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Photo by Andrea Piacquadio

“…it is vital for you to decide what changes you want to bring into your life.”- Jim Stovall

Live your own life and forget your past failures. You can’t concentrate on creating your new life if you can’t let go of your past failures. They are just failures, not you. Do not let your failures define who you are. You are better than that. You are more powerful than you think.

If you want to create your new life, if you want to try again, if you want to better your life, if you want to protect your sanity, if you want to maintain a sound mind, if you want to live successfully, you MUST forget about your past failures. Because the more you concentrate on your past failures, the more you are missing what is happening around you. And if you miss the present, you can’t create the future you want for yourself.

Learn to forget. Learn to let go of the things that are not helping you move closer to your dreams. Don’t let your past mistakes and failures weigh you down. Instead, look for something positive to think about. Do things that will help you live a better life- you can walk, meditate, sing (if you can), call a great friend, or just relax. The choice is yours.

How To Live Your Own Life Well

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
Women in White Button-up Long-sleeved Top and Black Pants Sitting on White and Brown Bed
Photo by Andrea Piaquadio

Your life is your life. You should live it in your own way. You are not here to joke around. You are here on this earth to live your own life. If you are not living it now, when are you going to start living it?

You can’t live other people’s lives- only your own life. People want you to live their lives, but not yours. They want you to be different. They don’t want you to think for yourself. But no one is telling you to think for yourself. Why? So that they can control your life.

You must learn to think for yourself. You must learn to lead your life. You must learn to take charge of your life. You must be comfortable living your life. Do not apologize for your lifestyle. It is yours.

Believe in yourself. Don’t let people talk you out of your dreams. There are lots of people out there who are ready to tell you how to live your life, but no one is willing to tell you how to live your TRUE life.

To live your life, you must be a risk taker. Don’t just take risks, but take calculated ones. Don’t fear to experiment with what you don’t know. That is how we learn. That is how we get better at what we do. That is how we master our lives.

If you are afraid to take risks, then you are afraid to grow. There is no growth without risks. Don’t let fear master you. You must do whatever is within your power to master fear. If you can master fear, you are free to live your life.

Whatever it is you want to do, do it with all your might. Do not quit. Even if you are not getting what you want, don’t quit. Just do things differently, or you can change where you are going to. Do not blame anyone for where you are. It is your life. Live it well.