The Choice Is Always Yours

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The choice is always yours. No one can change your life for you. No matter what you are going through in your life, you can change it.

But it starts with a choice. Do not limit yourself. You are better than you think. When you are faced with issues, do not focus your time and energy on what you are going through. Instead of doing that, why not focus on your time and energy on how you are going to make things better?

‘Struggle … is our reaction, our resistance, our anger towards and our inability to deal with the pain when it happens.’- Gerry Hussey

Things will always happen. You can’t stop things from happening to you. That is life. Remember, according to Gerry, ‘You can learn that you always have a choice, and that the choice you have is not whether pain appears in your life or not, but how you choose to respond to it.’

Your life is not about what you are going through in your life. It is about what you are becoming. It is about what you are learning from what you are going through in your life.

Learn To Love Yourself As You Really Are

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Absolutely! You are worthy of love.’ No matter what is going on in your life, you are good enough to enjoy your life. Be happy. Celebrate what is working for you. Focus on what you are doing. Do not dwell on your failures, but learn from them. Do not beat yourself up over other people’s lives. Do not think they are better than you. No, they are not. They have their own problems to deal with.

If you really want to enjoy the life that you still have, you must learn to love yourself. According to Gerry Hussey, ‘Learning to accept and love ourselves fully as we are is the starting point of positive transformation that is founded on love and acceptance, and not fear and rejection.’

No one is perfect. You are good enough for yourself. Do not let anything pull you down. And do not pull yourself down. Stop telling yourself negative things. Instead of telling yourself negative things, why not tell yourself lots of positive stuff. They are better than negative talks.