4 Things All Wise People Know

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A wise person knows the proper aims of the activity she is engaged in. She wants to do the right things to achieve these aims- wants to meet the needs of the people she is serving.’- Barry Schwartz and Kenneth Sharpe

A wise person knows how to improvise, balancing conflicting aims and interpreting rules and principles in light of the particularities of each context.’- Barry Schwartz and Kenneth Sharpe

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A wise person is perceptive, knows how to read a social context, and knows how to move beyond the black- and-white of rules and see the gray in a situation.’- Barry Schwartz and Kenneth Sharpe

‘A wise person knows how to make emotions an ally of reason, to rely on emotion to signal what a situation calls for, and to inform judgment without distorting it. He can feel, intuit, or ‘just know’ what the right thing to do is, enabling him to act quickly when timing matters. His emotions and intuitions are well educated.’- Barry Schwartz and Kenneth Sharpe

How To Stay Positive Every Day

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At the end of the day, you are responsible for your thoughts.
No one is responsible for your thoughts. And if you don't like 
what you are getting, then check your thoughts. 
You have to do it for yourself.

If you are not happy, it is your choice.
Because if you can change yout thoughts,
you can change your life. 
You can make yourself happy. You can stay positive every day.

You can stay positive every day. What about other people?
People are not positive 
because they are ALWAYS feeding themselves with negative things.
You can't stay positive when your mind is in a dark place.

People are not happy, are not positive, because they 
are always looking for what is not there to make them happy.
Look, if you chase happiness, you are chasing your own shadow.
You can't catch it. It is always ahead of you. 
If you try to, you will run forever.

There is no secret to staying positive every day. 
All it takes is a decision. 
The decision to be happy, to stay positive, no matter what.
Pay attention to your life, to your thoughts, to your actions.
Do the right things. They will never fail you.
Do not ignore your intuition. It is there to help you.

Stay away from blaming other people for your own life.
Look, it doesn't matter what you have done with your life.
No one is perfect. Instead of reliving the past, why not 
take this moment to enjoy yourself, 
to love yourself even more, and 
to appreciate yourself, your life?