‘Yes’ And ‘No’

‘Every decision about yes and no really comes down to how you’re going to spend your time.’

‘No is how you protect yourself and others from making bad commitments, dedicating resources trying to do things that cannot be done (not possible), are not allowed (against the rules), or that on balance, should not be done ( a bad idea or not the next top priority).

‘Every good no makes room for a better yes.’

‘Yes is the beginning of a collaboration, the start of something.’

‘Every good yes is a chance to make the most of a good opportunity and serve others by adding value and building your real influence.’

‘Every good no – or not yet– makes room for a better opportunity.’

‘Every bad yes is a waste of time, energy, and money that will crowd out a better opportunity.’

‘Every bad no is a missed opportunity or a delayed ( and maybe soured) opportunity if the no gets overturned.’

‘Every yes is a commitment, and every commitment deserves to be taken seriously and honored with a good plan and focused execution.’

‘Plan the work so that you can work your plan.’

Source:

Bruce Tulgan (2020). The Art of Being Indispensable at Work: Win Influence Beat Overcommitment And Get The Right Things Done

Real Leaders Never Stop Moving Forward

‘If you live in the past, you’ll never improve your future. The best lessons in life are the ones you pay for.’

‘If your life isn’t growing and improving, something is wrong.’

‘Facing the fear is always a faster way to get where you’re trying to go than sticking with what is familiar.’

‘Beware of who you allow to connect to you … who we connect with in life can make or break us.’

‘We can’t change the world for all of them, but we can change the world for one of them, and that’s powerful.’

‘Our chief want in life is somebody who will make us do what we can.’

‘It is not your past decisions that define you, it is the next one.’

‘If it doesn’t challenge you, it won’t change you. Swim harder.‘

‘You aren’t successful unless you take others with you.’

‘You are who you hang out with.’

‘Great leaders influence; bad leaders rule.’

Source:

Walter Bond (2019). Swim! How a Shark, a Suckerfish, and a Parasite Teach You Leadership, Mentoring, & Next Level Success