Tag: happiness

When Something Is Still Missing

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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When nothing is working, when you are doing everything in your life to make things better, when you are not happy with your life, when you are just getting by, when you are trying to fit in, something is still missing.

You are not where you are supposed to be. You are not doing what you are supposed to be doing. You are not with the right people. Your values are different from what you are doing.

They are not aligned. They are not who you are. You are not getting what you want because your values and your work are not aligned.

You are not happy because you are not making your soul happy. What you are doing is different from what you really care about.

You are always exhausted because you are not following your heart. Your heart is starving for love. Your life is empty.

That is not your life. It is not your real life. You can do better than that. You are not here to settle for less.

And that is what is happening to you right now. If you don’t like it, if you don’t like what you are getting, it is time to make some changes in your life.

According to Ananthoj, ‘Unless you set direction and goals, you cannot achieve anything in life.’

If you want things to get better for you, do not complain. Do something about it. Whatever it is that is eating you alive, you can change it.

Make some changes in your life. You can change. You can move. You can redirect yourself.

Do not wait for anyone to do it for you. Because it is your life, not theirs. To start, you must know what you want, where you are going, and how you are going to get there.

You must be your own driver. Why is that? Because they don’t know what you really want. Because your dreams are personal. They are uniquely yours.

You can change your life by changing your thoughts. When you change your thoughts, your action will follow.

If you are not happy with your life, ask yourself some questions. Don’t ignore your feelings. Because your feelings are your messengers.

If you are with the wrong people, if you are not happy with them, especially when you are with them, you don’t have to continue with them. Make sure you do it with respect.

It is better to be with yourself than to be with people who don’t care about you.

Remember, if you do not take care of yourself, no one is going to be there for you. It is your life.

If You Want To Stay Happy In Your Life, These Quotes Are More Than Enough

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘If you continue to exhume and ruminate over others’ misdeeds toward you, you will fester with hatred and resentment and you cannot be happy. To be happy, you have to wish other people well and truly mean it.‘- Will Bowen

‘You can smile, speak affirmatively, engage in kind acts, and more, but if you are holding hatred toward another human being, your structure is built upon rotten foundation. It will come crashing down at some point.’- Will Bowen

‘Happy people tend to be kind. Unkind people tend to be unhappy.’- Will Bowen

‘People who hurt you are themselves hurting.’- Will Bowen

‘Changing your thoughts, words, and actions can increase your happiness level, but over time you will settle back to your typical happiness level if you don’t develop new happiness habits.’- Will Bowen

‘When you think you are happy, you are happy.’– Will Bowen

‘When you separate your thoughts from your ego, you liberate yourself to be happy.’- Will Bowen

‘When you take control of your thinking, you can choose to think happy thoughts.’- Will Bowen

‘Happiness and unhappiness are not only mental states, they are also mental evaluations.’- Will Bowen

‘When you accept that you will always have challenges and that they exist to keep you actively engaged and growing, you have found the first step to sustainable higher levels of happiness.’- Will Bowen

‘To become as happy as you resolve to be requires shifting your thoughts about other people and their antics.’- Bill Bowen

‘To choose happy thoughts, you must develop your power to silence the ego and select what you will think.’- Bill Bowen

‘Fear negates happiness.’- Bill Bowen

‘Make it your resolution to be happy first and you will find that other things you desire come to you moree easily as a natural result of your increased sense of well-being.’- Will Bowen

‘To be happier, you need to get an image in your mind of how your life will be when you consistently average a higher happiness set point.’- Will Bowen