Tag: fear

Rather Than Letting Other People’s Opinions Control Your Life, Develop The Courage To Take Charge Of Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
Photo by Tima Miroshnichenko

What are you scared of? Are you scared of other people’s opinions of you? Are you scared of life? No, you should be scared of life. Why is that? Because life is full of issues. Life is full of opportunities. Do not be scared of life. Life is for you to live. And to live it well, you must believe in your life. Life is hell when you do not believe in your life, when you do not know what you are doing, when you are just going with the flow, when you are confused.

“Life is hell when you do not believe in yourself.”

The only thing you can do about what you cannot control is to accept it.

You are unique. But just know that you cannot control everything . Just control what you can control. And do not let what you cannot control stop you from challenging life. If you are to succeed in your life, you will never stop fighting life. Because life is all about fight. You must fight for whatever you want. And there is nothing you cannot get if you are willing and ready to fight. If you are willing to fight, you will succeed. And success is not an event. Sucess is a process. Success takes time to achieve. If you want to succeed, you must cultivate the courage to walk alone.

“Success is not an event.”

Terence once said, “I am the most concerned in my own interests.” Yes, you are you. And you are here to make your life a masterpiece. If you cannot do it right now, do not give up. Keep going. Keep fighting. Keep living. And keep loving!

“Success is a journey.”

Take Some Time To Reflect On Why You Are Here

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
Photo by Zeeshan Clicks

Why are you here? Do you know why you are here? What is your mission on earth? What are you here to create? What are you here to change? What are you here to make better?

Are you here to live your life? Are you here to live your beliefs? Are you here to live your values? What are you here to do?

“What you try for is up to you.”- Napoleon Hill

Whether you like to here it or not, God created you to flourish, not to just survive. No matter what you are comfortable doing, just know that there is nothing you cannot achieve if you really want it. Napoleon Hill once said, “What you try for is up to you.”

So, what are you trying for? Why are you doing what you are doing? No matter what you do, do it well. There is greatness in whatever you are doing. Do not be afraid to do the right thing. And you should stop chasing what the world wants you to do. That is not the way for you. The right thing to do is what you are doing right now. Stop following the crowd. Get away from the crowd. Develop the courage to live your life, to follow your passion, to do what you are here to do, to chase your authentic life, to enjoy life.

“Be a part of a great cause.”-Napoleon Hill

Enjoy your life. Do not be afraid to live your life, to expect great things for your life, to do what people deemed impossible, to follow your own path. And if you want to know why things are the way they are, you should take some time to reflect on why you are here. Do not forget that you are here for a reason. If you do not know why you are here, do not give up. Your time is coming. Your time is right here. You never know, but be ready. It is really coming. Stop running after what the world wants you to do. It is time to be you. And the time is now!