Tag: Expectations

How To Become More Fulfilled

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Fulfillment is not about what you have the power to have. It is about what you have the courage to enjoy.

Fulfillment is not about what you can keep. It is about what you can share with others. Fulfillment is not about how you feel about yourself. It is about how you make others feel about themselves.

Fulfillment is not about possessions. It is about feelings. It is about actions.

You can have everything. But if you can’t enjoy what you have, if you are not happy with what you have, if you still feel empty on the inside, if you never stop searching for more, you are not fulfilled.

Because fulfillment is not about more. It is about less. When it comes to fulfillment, less is better. To make yourself fulfilled every day,

Be grateful for what you have. Stop hunting for more. When it comes to life, less is better. When you are grateful for what you have, more will come to you. But not without work.

Start your day with expectation. Before you live your bed, or your house, tell yourself, ‘Today is going to be a great day?’ With this in your mind, you are ready for the day.

Focus. Do not worry about what is going to happen. Do not worry about your results. Instead of doing that, it pays to focus on what you are becoming.

Becoming is everything. Remember that nothing stays forever. Things are changing. If you want to stay fulfilled in your life, you need to let go of what you cannot control. The question is, ‘Do you have the courage to do it?’

How To Reduce Your Worries

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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The best way to solve anything is to face it. When you face it, you can do something about it. When you worry about it, it is still there. You have not done anything to make it better.

That is why you shouldn’t worry yourself about something that you cannot do anything about. You can worry all you like. It is still there.

To make things better, ask yourself, ‘What is the worst thing can possibly happen?’ And guess what, nothing is going to break you.

Whatever it is that you are worrying about, make a plan as to how you are going to make it better. If you are behind in your assignment, make a plan as to how you are going to go back to work.

Do not start big. Start small. If you are behind in your assignment, you can start by doing one research paper per day. If you don’t know what to do, do what is important. Focus on the most important thing. When you do the most important one, others will follow.

When you are trying to solve any problem, you do not need more chaos. All you need is a plan, an action. Not just a plan, but an action one.

When you have a good plan of action to handle your worries, it will lessen its severity. If you have the courage to just focus on what is important to you, you are free to live your life again.

It is okay to worry about something, especially when it is not what you expect. That is okay. That is life. Worrying is part of who we are. It is going to be there.

But you are bigger than whatever it is that you are going through in your life. Remember who you are. You are a child of God. Who is bigger than God? No one. Who is in charge of your life? God.

When you know who you are, when you know what you are doing, where you are going, you can break through whatever it is that you are worrying about.

Stop worrying, start living your life. Will you focus on your life?