Detachment: How To Practice It Every Day

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Detachment means separation. It means detaching yourself from what you already know, from what is hurting you, from selfish people, from the things that are not getting you closer to your dreams, from being the talker, from controlling other people, from lying to yourself, from manipulating others.

Detachment brings peace. It brings love. It brings happiness. It brings freedom.

Detachment says, “Let it go. Do not let anything own you. Do not crave over anything. Be happy with what you have. Take care of your mind. Enjoy your life. Make peace with yourself.”

“Only by detaching can we truly gain control of the mind.”- Jay Shetty

If you want to make peace with your soul, you must first detach yourself from the things that are hurting your soul.

Detach yourself from: anger, resentment, envy, jealousy, laziness, hate, and procrastination.

Detachment is the key to a lasting peace. In his book Think Like A Monk: Train Your Mind for Peace and Purpose Every Day, Jay Shetty writes, “Detaching means escaping the hold of the senses, of earthly desires, of the material world. It means detaching from your selfish interest, from being right, from being seen in a certain way, from what you want right now.”

He adds: “Only by detaching can we truly gain control of the mind.” If you want to live a peaceful life, do not attach yourself to anything. Because “attachment brings pain.” Seek peace, not pain.

Further Reading:

Shetty, J., Think Like A Monk: Train Your Mind for Peace and Purpose Every Day (New York: Simon & Schuster, Inc., 2020): 164-165.

If You Want To Get Ahead, You Must Chop Off Whatever You Don’t Need

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Marie Curie said, “Life is not easy for any of us.” Yes, “life is not easy for any of us”, but you can make your own life the way you want it. You can choose the life you want. To do that, you must free yourself from unnecessary things. You must detach yourself from worthless things. You must divorce yourself from the things that are holding you back. You must chop off: bad friends, negative thoughts, procrastination, fear, doubt, lack of confidence, anxiety, depression, hate, stagnation, poverty, and comfort zone. Do not accommodate what is eating you alive, chop it off! Because you are in control of your life. Yes, whether you like it or not, you are. You are the master of your own life. If you don’t take charge of your life, someone else will.