Why You Can’t Attract Great People Into Your Life

People are people. They want what you want. They are not going to live with what you can’t live with.

People are attracted to greatness. They are attracted to love. They are attracted to happiness. And they are attracted to growth.

People don’t want to hang around stagnation. They don’t want to have anything to do with fear, with self-doubt, and anger.

If you want people to come to you, if you want to bring the best into your life, you must act like you are, not as you are not.

Do not fake who you are. Be real. Know what you want in life, what you are going to do to get it, and what you are not going to do to get it, no matter what.

People are comfortable with people who treat them well, who listen to them. So if you want people to come to you, you must learn how to be a good listener, not a great talker.

Why is that? Because we want to feel that we are important. If no one is listening, people stop talking.

And if you want to attract other people to you, you must acknowledge the fact that your way of doing things is not the only way. People have their ways of doing things.

People won’t give you there best if your way is the only way of getting things done. You will get a lot done through others when you treat them well. The question is, ‘What are you doing to attract the best into your life?’

Why Some People Don’t Succeed

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Success starts with you. It requires you. Success is not about what other people are doing; it is about what you are doing.

Your own success is about how you are living your own life. If you want to attract success into your life, you must value yourself. Because you are the beginning of your success. Because you know what success means to you. You are not going after what other people are going after.

Success is not doing what other are doing. It is doing what you want to do. It is knowing why you are doing what you are doing.

If you don’t follow the wrong path, you are more likely to succeed in your own life. Do not do what people want you to do. If you believe in yourself, if you believe in your ideas, if you are true to yourself, you can make your success happen.

In the words of Johnny Wimbrey, ‘No one will take a risk on you if you aren’t willing to put yourself and your self-worth on the line.’

That is true. If you do not value yourself, no one is going to value you. If you want people to value you, according to Johnny, you must ‘Value yourself. Value your time and energy and ideas.’

Will you?