Why You Should Never Copy Other People

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Growth comes from doing the work. It does not come from copying other people.

When you copy others, you are not creating your own life. You are just repeating what is already out there.

When you copy other people, you are not adding value to your life; you are stealing from your own growth; you are reducing yourself. Because growth happens when you actually do the work, not when you copy other people.

When you copy other people, you are a follower, not a leader. You are not an innovator. You are not living your life. You are living other people’s dreams.

Copying other people is not good for you. According to Jason Fried and David Heinemeier Hansson, ‘copying does more harm to the copier than to the copied. When someone copies you, they are copying a moment in time. They don’t know the thinking that went into getting you to that moment in time, and they won’t know the thinking that’ll help you have a million more moments in time. They’re stuck with what you left behind.’

That is why you should NEVER copy other people. Because copying is not learning. Learning is doing the work, not copying the work.

The question is, ‘Do you have the courage to face yourself?’

Why You Should Love Yourself

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Self-love is not about being perfect. It is not about being the best. It is not about other people. It is about you. Self-love is about your life.

Self-love is your inner power. If you want peace, it not going to come from what you have. It is going to come from the love you have for yourself.

If you don’t love yourself, if you are not comfortable with yourself, especially when you are alone, when things are not going well, when you are going through difficult times, what you have won’t be enough to keep you going.

Life is tough enough. If you do not love who you are, it is going to be more harder for you to do things. Do not do that to yourself. Because you deserve love.

Because love is everything. But do not expect it from other people. According to The Diary of a CEO, ‘Some people will love you. Some will hate you. Some people simply won’t care. You will only connect to the first two. But not to the third. Indifference is the least profitable outcome.’

Self-love is better. It is from you, not from others. If you want others to love you, you MUST first love yourself.

The question is, ‘Do you have the courage to love yourself, no matter what is going on in your life?