Category: Personal Growth

Life is about growth. If you are not growing, then what are you doing?

Is Life Wrong?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘Society makes everything look perfect and binary, so imperfect and complex feel wrong. Life is imperfect and non-binary, but life isn’t wrong.’– Steven Bartlett

Nothing is perfect. Everything is imperfect. If you are a perfect human being, congratulations!

In reality, nothing is perfect. You are not perfect. Your thoughts are not perfect. Your world is not a perfect world. Your colleagues are not perfect. Your partner is not perfect. Society is not perfect. Your boss is not perfect. Nothing is perfect.

If you want to find your true happiness, you must accept your life as it is.

Why? Because nothing is perfect. Life is worth living. But don’t expect it to be a perfect one.

Society says, everything is perfect.’ I say, ‘Nothing is perfect.’ Society says, ‘imperfect and complex feel wrong.’ I say, ‘imperfect and complex feel right.’

If you are not perfect, that is okay. That is how it is supposed to be. If you are perfect, you are not doing enough. If you want to grow, you must accept your flaws.

And remember that life is not perfect, … ‘but life isn’t wrong.’

The Only Way To Real Happiness

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘Live in accordance with your outside world and you’ll soon find misery. Live accordance with your inside world and you’ll soon find happiness.’– Steven Bartlett

Remember that ‘you are the power in your world.’ That is, you are in charge of your world.

You are in charge of your thoughts. You are in charge of your actions. And you are in charge of your happiness.

If you want to be happy, do not seek happiness. If you want to be happy, don’t believe who people say they are. If you want to find your own true happiness, you must be comfortable with who you are.

Live your life. Do not worry about what you see out there. Why is that? Because people don’t really tell you who they are.

We are human beings. We like to show other people our strengths, not our weaknesses. We like to show other people our successes, not our failures.

When people show you what they have, celebrate with them. Do not envy them. Envy is evil. It is not good for you. It is not good for your own growth.

Be happy with your life. Be grateful for what you have. When you are grateful for what you have, more will come to you.

More will come to you when you pay attention to what is in front of you. More will come to you when you celebrate what you have. And more will come to you when you are who you are.

If you want to find your own happiness, real happiness, you must ‘live accordance with your inside world.’