Category: Personal Growth

Life is about growth. If you are not growing, then what are you doing?

Is Where You Are The Right Place For You?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

Successful people attract other successful people. Why do you think that is? Why not the other way around? Successful people are around other successful people because they want

to continue to grow, to expand their social connections,

to continue to ask real questions, to meet other people who are very hungry,

to challenge themselves, and to live well.

Because success is attractive. If you want to better yourself, you must hang out with those who are doing interesting things. Don’t hang out with people who are just happy with what they are doing, who are not interested in growth, who are scared of leaving what they are used to.

Look, success is not what you cannot make. You can, but you have got to be willing to do the work, to challenge yourself. Success is not going to happen in your life if you just continue to do what you have always done. If you want to experience something new in your life, you have got to step out.

When you step out, you will start to attract new things into your life. Success won’t happen if you are not in the right place.

What is the right place? The right place is where you are free to challenge yourself.

The right place is where growth is possible. It is where you are free to challenge the status quo, where people are willing to help you when you need help.

The right place is where people are friendly, real friendly. The right place is where you are safe to talk about what you are going through in your life, where you can seek help, without the fear of rejection from colleagues.

The right place has problems, but they know how to deal with them.

That is why the right place is where people want to be, want to work. If you want to be successful, where you are matters.

If where you are is not doing it, is not supporting you, if you are just there, just killing time, you had better leave. If you stay, nothing is going to happen.

The question is, ‘Is where you are the right place for you? If you are not feeling it, ‘What are you doing to make your life better?

When Life Throws Things At Us

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

For as long as you live your life, nothing is going to be perfect. Do not expect what is perfect from something that is not perfect. Do not expect people to be perfect. And do not expect yourself to be perfect.

Because it is not going to happen. if you want to experience life, a real life, you must forget about being perfect. You must stop talking about creating a perfect world. You must stop thinking about working with perfect people. It is just a dream that will never come true. It is a goal that will never come to fruition.

If you are seeking perfect things from imperfect people, you are just kidding yourself. If you think you can make it happen, then try it. Try it and see what happens.

Maybe you can do it. Maybe you can’t do it. Who knows? Whether you think you can create a better world or not, you are right.

But that is not how life works. Life tests people. For as long as you are here, life will always throw things at you that you can’t stand.

When that happens, life is asking you to step up, to wake up, and to start moving. When life throws things at us, life is asking us to start creating things that we thought were impossible.

When life throw things at us, life is asking us to get back up, to wake up, and to start challenging old beliefs.

When life throws things at us, life is asking us to do more than we are doing now. Life wants us to look at ourselves and say, ‘We will succeed, no matter what.’

If you want to create a better self, a better life, and a better world, you must be willing to absorb whatever life throws at you. If you can, you can win.

The question is, ‘Are you willing to face life?’