Why Not Now?

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I agree. ‘The time is now.’ If not now, when? When it comes to your dreams, I believe that the best time to start is now.

Now is better. Now is the right time. Do you know why you are still waiting? Do you know why you are still talking about your dreams?

Why? Do you know? What are you afraid of? Why not now? What is holding you back? Why are you not going after it? Is it fear? Is it the fear of failure? Or is it the fear of success?

Whatever it is that is holding you back, you can face it. But it is not going to happen overnight. It is going to take time to get used to.

Before you continue, ask yourself, ‘Why am I not going after what I want? Why am I holding myself back? Do I have what it takes to go after what I want? Is it the right thing for me? Am I going to do it for the right reason? Is it going to make me happy? Am I doing it for myself?’

According to Mel Robbins, ‘Every day that you allow your fear of somebody else’s opinion, stress over friendships, or concern about how someone will react to prevent you from making the phone call, filling the application, working on the business plan, starting the diet, or putting in the effort, you’re holding yourself back. You’re robbing yourself of your potential. You’re standing still while life moves on around you.’

Your dreams are still alive. They are not dead yet. They are still breathing. To keep them going, to bring them to life, you have got to take action.

Do not let anything stand in your way. You have what it takes to move forward. If you are not moving forward, other people are doing it. If you are still planning to start your journey, other people are already going. They are almost there. What are you still waiting for? Why are you not up? If you are waiting for the right time to come to you, that is not going to happen. If you want your dreams to come true, you have got to make time for them to happen. Will you?

It’s time to let adults be adults.’

What Are You Doing When No One Is Watching You?

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Let’s start with this question: ‘What are you doing when no one is watching you?’ If no one is watching you, are you who you say you are? Are you living your values? Are you dreaming? Are you thinking the right thoughts? Are you teaching other people how to live a better life? Are you doing what you say you are going to do?

Above all, ‘Are you living your life on your own terms?’ If you are still planning to live your life, it is too late.

We are human beings. We are not perfect. And nobody expects you to be perfect. People just want to see you in action. People want to see you that you have the courage to live your life on your own terms.

They do not want you to hide behind anybody. They want you to have the courage to go for what you want for yourself. And they want to see you doing what you say you are going to do.

They just want to see you happy. Because if you are not happy, you are not really living your life on your own terms.

That is not what I do. I am not perfect. But I do not give in to what is against my life. If anything is not going to move me closer to my dreams, I do not do it. It is not easy, but It is the best way to stick to your dreams.

When no one is watching me, I live my life. I do not change how I live my life. I do not live for others. I live for myself. I do not change who I am.

When no one is watching me, It does not matter to me. When people are watching me, I do the same thing. When they are not there, I still do the same thing.

Why is that? Because if you do not have the courage to live your truth, you are not going to grow. If you do not practice what you preach, no one is going to believe in you. No one is going to trust you.

If you love yourself, when no one is watching you, do the right thing. Do not cheat yourself. When people are watching you, do the right thing. When you do, the right things will never stop flowing your way.

And you will never stop growing. Because growth comes from doing the right things.