How To Step Up Your Game And Improve Your Life

To step up your game, according to Carla A. Harris, ‘You must define success in a way that you can deliver and that will allow you to create performance currency by delivering a visible, identifiable achievement.’

You ‘must begin to build relationships as soon as you join an organization.’

Because ‘true relationship currency will motivate people to act on your behalf.’

Do not be too emotional in your communication at work, stay professional.’

‘Know the common signals and ask questions about what the mean, and adjust your performance as necessary to keep your career moving forward.’

‘You can’t fix it if you don’t know that it’s broken. Whether or not you think it is valid, never be argumentative or aggressive toward someone offering you constructive criticism. Be open to what people have to communicate: it will help you continue to grow.’

Be self-aware. Know your profile and what it says about you. … Your profile affects how and if people think of you when new positions, assumptions, or opportunities to lead rise.’

‘Don’t allow yourself to be overwhelmed if you lose your job. Use it as an opportunity to craft and sell your story about your skills and experience and why you make the best candidate for a new job.’

‘Rather than reinventing yourself, seek to reposition yourself by leveraging your experience.’

‘Inventory your strengths and weaknesses, categorizing your experiences, both professional and extracurricular and philanthropic, and focus on what you learned and what skills you developed.’

Create a clear picture of what kind of role you want and what skills required to be successful in that role.’

Construct an argument that connects the dots between what you have done and what you want to do now, identifying why you would be effective in that new role.’

Don’t just take any job. Even if it’s not your dream, make sure it positions you well for what you really want to do.’

Before you settle for anything, ask yourself, ‘What are the future opportunities…?

And ‘are you willing to make a few personal sacrifices along the way?’ If you are, you are more likely to succeed.

Stop Feeling Unworthy

We are chasing different dreams. We are not going to achieve the same results. We are going to live in different places. We are not going to buy the same things. Why is that?

Because we are different. Because that is who we are. Nothing is going to change that. And you are not going to be able to change yourself into something you are not. It won’t work.

If you try it, you are not yourself. You are not who you are, the real you. You are living a fake life. You are moving away from your real self. And that is hard to keep.

If you are not yourself, if you don’t feel worthy, if you think you are not good enough, if you think other people are better than you, then you are in for a long walk.

If you want to achieve success, if you really want to be present for yourself, if you want to be there for yourself, you must stop saying negative things about your life.

Because negative thoughts equal negative results. If you want different results, then you have got to think better thoughts. If your thoughts are good, your results will be good. If your thoughts are poor, weak, negative, your results will be the same.

That is why you should always treat yourself the right way. If you want to see light in your life, then speak light into your life.

If you want to experience love in your life, then send love into the world. If you want to attract great people, then you must be great yourself.

If you want to produce better results, you must first improve yourself.

That is what great people do. That is what great laeders do. They don’t say negative things. Instead, they pour love into their lives.

You can do the same. You can turn your life around. All you need to do is to change how you treat yourself. If you change how you treat yourself, your life will change.

Will you do it?