Are You The One Controlling Your Conversation?

Who is controlling your conversation? If you are not controlling your conversation, someone else is doing it for you.

To learn about yourself, you must take charge of your conversation. If you are the one doing the talking, you are not hearing anything. You are not learning anything. You are not even learning about the other person.

‘The person who is talking is usually not the one controlling the conversation.’- Rob Jolles

If you want to learn more about yourself, you must control your converasation. To do that, you must listen. You learn a lot when you listen. You grow a lot when you listen. You live a lot when you listen. Instead of talking, why not pay attention to what is going on around you?

Are You Enjoying The Game?

If yes, you are doing the right thing. If you are not enjoying your game, what is going on?

Do not get discouraged. Do not get frustrated. Because you are not done. It is just the beginning.

Do not give up. Life is about competition. But the best one is when you compete with yourself. If you want peace of mind, don’t compete with other people.

Why is that? Because we are not perfect. Because you are not perfect. You are not good at everything. You have your weaknesses. You have your strengths.

No matter how smart you are, someone out there is smarter than you. No matter how successful you are, someone out there has more than you.

That is why, according to Joel Comm, ‘the key is to enjoy the game.’