Month: December 2023

You Can Have What You Want, But You Must Do This

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘You can have the life you want no matter who you are.’- Chris Guillebeau

You are who you say you are,not what other people say you are.

Whatever you want to achieve in your life, you can achieve it. To get there, you must focus on your purpose. You must focus on how you are going to achieve your goals.

When you are done with one goal, set another one. That is life. If you want to achieve more than your past Self, you must do more. You must think more. And you must believe in yourself more.

No one is going to push you. Whatever you want, go after it. Do not let fear defeat you. Leave your safe zone. There is nothing happening there.

‘A meaningful life begins when you decide your life is worth living.’– Sara Kuburic

If you want to have what you want, all you need to do is to focus on what you are doing.

Getting what you want is about taking action, not about talking.

It is about facing your challenges. It is about trying new things. It is not about talking about what you are going to do, but actually doing what you say you are going to do.

It is about facing your fears. When you face your fears, you can have what you want. But if you do not have the courage to face your fears, nothing is going to change.

5 Simple Ways To Bring Purpose To Your Life

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Your purpose is your why. It is why you are alive.

When things are really tough, when things are not going your way, it is your purpose that will get you through.

If you do not know your purpose, here is how to bring it to your life.

Do not overcorrect yourself.

‘… overcorrection follows an unpleasant experience or a loss. We don’t want to repeat either, so we try to protect ourselves by going as far as we can in the opposite direction.’- Sara Kuburic

Give yourself permission to live your life

‘Give yourself permission to become who you want to be and do it for your Self, not for others.’– Sara Kuburic

To bring purpose to your life, you must give yourself permission to live your life, to do your own thing, and to face what is yours to face. And you must live for yourself, not for others.

Be honest with yourself

‘If you’re not honest about the story that got you here, you’ll never change the narrative.’– Sara Kuburic

If you want to change your life, stop playing with yourself. If you are not honest with yourself, your life is not going to change.

‘Be the leading character in your own life.’- Sara Kuburic

‘Ground in your why’

‘Ground in your why and it will lead you to your how.’– Sara Kuburic

You can achieve your dreams. But if you do not focus on them, you will never achieve them. To achieve your own dreams, to get what you want in your life, you must focus on your purpose.

Believe in your purpose

‘You have to believe in your quest even if others don’t.’- Chris Guillebeau

Your purpose is yours. When you believe in what you are doing, other will follow you. But if you doubt your purpose, if you do not believe in what you are doing, then do not expect other people to believe in you.

‘If you want to make every day an adventure, all you have to do is priotitize adventure.’– Chris Guillebeau