‘If you aren’t evaluating yourself in a productive way, the loses and ‘failures’ erode your self-confidence. When you aren’t as confident, you can’t perform as well and you fail more often– starting a vicious cycle.’- Dr. Jason Selk and Tom Bartow
If you don’t have the courage to ask for feedback, you won’t know how well you are doing. So if you want to know where you stand, how well you are doing, whether you are moving forward or backward, whether you are growing or dying, whether you are progressing or stagnating, you must ask other people to evaluate you.
Do not ask your friends. Ask people you don’t know, who are not really your friends. Or if you have a sincere friend, then you can ask him or her to tell you how he or she thinks you are doing. If not, you are just going to be ‘flying blind.’ You won’t know what is going on in your life. And that is not good.
If you want to be successful, please do not fly blind, ask questions.
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