The game of life is change. If you are not changing, if you are not loving change, if you are not living change, what are you doing? You can’t escape change. It is better to embrace it than to fight it. Fighting change is like fighting life. Can you win? Can you fight change? Can you fight life? No, you can’t. No one likes change. No one can live successfully without change.
So if you want to enjoy every moment of your life, here is how to do it.
If you want to achieve your dreams, you can’t hate change.
Do not let fear stop you from embracing change. And do not let anything stand between you and your change. It is important if you want to grow. If you let fear stand between you and your future, you are not going to achieve your dreams. To achieve your goals, you must not hate what you love. If you hate change, you hate life. If you hate change, you hate growth. And without growth, we are not going to achieve our goals. Paul J. McAuuley said, “You can’t hate change. It’s like hating life.” That is true. If you fight change, it is like fighting life. Instead of fighting change, why not love it, why not embrace it?
If you want to change your life, you must be patient with yourself. Because change takes time
Change is hard. Change is difficult. But if you really want to change, cultivate the courage to face change. Do your work to change your life. Do not live with what is holding you back. If anything is holding you back, you must get rid of it. If you are holding yourself back, you must stop it. Stop limiting your life. Stop telling yourself fake stories. They are not you. They are not true. They are false. Do not believe them. Thomas Carlyle once said, “Change, indeed, is painful.” Yes, it is painful. That is why so many people are stuck in a rut. That is why so many people are where they are. That is why so many people are working where they are working. Because they are scared of change. They are scared of the unknown.
If you want to move forward, you must take full responsibility for your growth. Before you quit, before you give up, remember that change makes life better.