Tag: Relationships

I Don’t Want Your Gifts. I Just Want You To Make Me Feel Safe And Secure

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Princess Diana said, “I don’t want expensive gifts; I don’t want to be bought. I have everything I want. I just want someone to be there for me, to make me feel safe and secure.” Don’t think you know what people need. No, you don’t. If you want to know what they want, ask them. If you ask, they will tell you. Money is good, but not everything in life. Money can make you feel good about yourself. But money can’t buy you real happiness. Real happiness comes from within you. It does not depend on how much you have in your bank account. Happiness doesn’t care about your bank account. It cares about your heart.

If you think you can buy happiness, you have a lot of work to do. Why is that? Because happiness is not for sale. Happiness is free. It doesn’t depend on your wealth. Stop chasing happiness. You don’t look for happiness. Do the right thing, happiness will come to you. So if you want to be happier, you must focus on what makes you happy. If you can’t make yourself happy, you can’t make other people happy. Why? Because you can’t give what you don’t have. In order to make other people happy, you must first plant the seeds of happiness.

“I just want someone to be there for me, to make me feel safe and secure.”- Princess Diana

If you want love, plant the seeds of love. If you want happiness, plant the seeds of happiness. If you want peace, you must plant the seeds of peace. Remember that everything begins with you. You are responsible for making others happy. Above all, you are responsible for making yourself happy. Don’t buy gifts. It won’t work. Instead of buying expensive gifts, why not give part of yourself to someone who is suffering. Gifts can’t do it. Gifts are good, but can’t make people happy. As Princess Diana said, “I just want someone to be there for me, to make me feel safe and secure.” Right. People want to be safe and secure. They want you to be there for them. They want you to appreciate them, love them, kiss them, and huge them. If you want to make people happy, show them some love. Real love. Just do it!

Instead Of Discouraging Yourself With Your Negative Thoughts, Why Not Encourage Yourself With Positive Thoughts?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Spirituality, Success
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“Focus on remedies not faults.” Your life is not about faults; it is about solutions. Your life is not about weaknesses; it is about your strengths. Instead of worrying yourself about what other people think of you, why not worry yourself about what you think of yourself? When it comes to your life, your growth, your career, your relationship, you matter. Because you are the master of your own life. You are the one driving your life.

If you want to do your best in your life, do not discourage yourself.

Stop discouraging yourself. Why are you discouraging yourself? You need your true self to face life. You can’t face life with your weak self. Stop discouraging your life. From today, you must change how you see yourself. You must see yourself as a positive person. You must see yourself as a smart person. You must stop using negative words to talk about yourself. If you want to grow, if you want to achieve your goals, you need to change your thoughts. No matter what, always try to use positive words to describe yourself, your life.