Tag: Problem solving

Are You Ready To Face Your Reality?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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Your reality is your reality. Your reality is not my reality. And my reality is not your reality. It is subjective. It is what you say it is.

‘Not getting what you want is exactly what you need.‘- Gina Mollicone- Long

If you want to know more about your world, your reality, you must be honest with yourself.

If you are ready to explore your world, if you are ready to know more about yourself, about why you do what you do, it is going to be a long journey.

Why not start with these eight ways?

When you are down, don’t stay down.

President Obama was right when he said, ‘The only thing that is the end of the world is the end of the world. And so, you get knocked down, you get up, brush yourself off, and you get back to work.’ Yes, the only thing that is really the end of the world is the end of the world. When you are down, when you fail at something, don’t let it define you.

Unstuck yourself.

The only thing that can stuck you is you. You can unstuck yourself. Whatever you are going through in your life, according to Obama, is not the end of the world. The only thing that is the end of the world is when you don’t get back up. Remember, failure is not a problem, but not trying again is.

Choose happiness.

Nothing in life is perfect. To make yourself happy, you must choose happiness. Do not focus on what is going in your life. Instead of focusing on what you are not good at, why not enjoy what you are good at? According to Gina Mollicone- Long, ‘Circumstances don’t make you happy or unhappy, but your choices do.’ If you are not happy, pay attention to your thoughts. Do not carry negative thoughts around. They are too heavy for you. If you want to enjoy your life, you must drop negative thoughts.

Focus on solutions, not problems.

According to Gina Mollicone- Long, ‘When we focus on problems, we send a signal to the Universe that we want more problems.’ You have many things to celebrate in your life. A problem is not one them. If you want more solutions, you must focus on solutions. Do not forget that you get what you think about. Life is better when we focus on solutions. Yes, you can’t stop things from happening. When they do, focus on how you are going to make things better.

Wherever you are, always Recruit The Best!

How To Reclaim Your Life Right Now

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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The life you want for yourself is within your reach. 
Now is not the time to give in to fear, to your past failures.

And if you want to reclaim your life, you must first define what it is that
you want for yourself. 
And it starts with your why. 
Because you can't get to where you are going if you do not know what you want.

And to reclaim your life, Martha Beck says, 'Reclaiming your true nature
begins with knowing the purpose of all your solving.'
Why is that? According to Beck, '... social structures are becoming so fluid, failing to 
define your purpose these days leaves you wandering aimlessly from 
problem to problem, feeling lost and confused, wondering why no one is 
showing up to tell you the next step.' No one is going to tell you the next step.
Because they don't know what you want for your life.
If they can figure out your dream, then it is not your dream.
 
So if you are wondering why things are not changing in your life,
then check whether or not you are living your purpose.
If not, reclaim it.