What You Are Going Through In Your Life Is Temporary

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Things happen. We can’t control everything. But we can control ourselves. We can control our feelings. We can control our emotions. And we can control how we react to what we are going through.

Whatever it is that you are going through in your life, it is not going to be there forever.

Do not focus on what you are going through. Instead, focus on what you are learning from what you are going through.

Change is possible only if we learn from what we are going through. Growth is possible only if we learn from our problems. Success is possible only if we have the courage to do what others don’t do. And fear is conquered only if we have the courage to face it.

When you are faced with something bigger than you, do not give up. Instead, focus on what you can do to make it better. Remember, you get what you give your attention to.

When you give your attention to problems, you will get more problems. When you give your attention to solutions, you will get more solutions. You can make any situation better when you focus on solutions. Because problems need solutions, not more problems.

Wherever you are, do not make things worse. instead, make them better.

Stop Playing Not To Lose

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It is okay to lose. That is how we learn. That is how we get better at what we do. So it is okay to lose. It is okay to fail. It is okay to make mistakes.

When you lose, take it as an opportunity to get better, to know more about yourself. Take it as an opportunity to reach out to other people who are better than you at what you are doing. And when you lose, take it as an opportunity to question your ego.

‘If you are playing not to lose, you are already losing.’

Yes, your ego. You can’t win by respecting your ego. You can’t win if you don’t pocket your ego. Guess what? If you don’t pocket your ego, your ego will pocket you.

But it is not okay to focus on what is easy. Look, if you focus on what is easy, you will get what is easy. And what is easy doesn’t make you better. It makes you worse.

Do not be scared.

Everything is possible.

But to get there, the world of possibilities, you must stop playing not to lose. It won’t help you. If you are playing not to lose, you are already losing.

‘No one wins when fear is in charge.’

Because you are not giving your best. You are not becoming your best. And you are not connecting with the best. And above all, you are not being true to yourself.

To move forward in your life, you must stop playing not to lose. And you must start taking calculated risks. Do not allow fear to cripple you. Do not allow fear to control you. If you do, you will never achieve your dreams. Because no one wins when fear is in charge.