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You Must Let Go Of People Who Don’t Value You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Recruit The Best
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You must let go of people who don’t value you. If you don’t let them go, they will continue to devalue you. You must tell people how to treat you. You must tell people what you want from them. You must tell people what you stand for. If you don’t tell them how you want to be treated, they will abuse you. They will mistreat you. They will never respect you. So if you don’t want it to happen to you, you must sail your ship. You must drive yourself. You must take charge of your life. If not, they will do it for you. And when they do, you will have nothing left to eat for lunch, let alone dinner.

If you have a friend who is a joke, let him or her go. Don’t hang out with aimless people. If you want to grow, you must look for people who are getting things done. If you don’t want to end up like your aimless friend, you must be in charge of your life.

Walking away from your aimless friend doesn’t mean you hate him or her; it means you love him or her. You respect him or her. You want your friend to do his or her thing. It means you respect yourself. If you don’t want to waste your time, you must let go of your aimless friends.

As the saying goes, “You are as good as your friends.” If you want to be successful, hang out with other successful people. If you want to be happier, hang out with other happy people. If you want to be smarter, hang out with other smart people. If you want to be a leader, you must follow a successful leader. It is not hard. You can do it. It depends on what your values are? If you know your values, you will know where to go. What are your values?

This Is What Happens When You Have Yourself

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth
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If you want to protect your inner world, you must have yourself. What does it really mean to have yourself? Do you have yourself?

Life is full of ups and downs. You can’t face what life has in store for you if you don’t have yourself. You must be your real you. You must protect yourself from poisonous people. You must live your own life. And most important, you must have yourself.

“To live is to have yourself.”

When you have yourself, you have nothing to lose. You have everything to gain in life. You do your own thing. No one is directing your life but you. You know when to relax and reconnect with your inner self. You are your own director. You are not doing something because people asked you to do it. You do something because you want to do it. You know when to say enough is enough.

“There is less to lose when you have yourself.”

John Amodeo, PhD

On the contrary, if you don’t have yourself, people will always tell you how to run your own life. People will be your director. They will tell you what to do. They will tell you what not to do. According to John Amodeo, “There is less to lose when you have yourself.” When you have yourself, you don’t lose anything; you gain everything.

To live is to be able to have yourself.

“There is less to lose when you have yourself.”-

John Amodeo

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