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‘What You Are, So Is Your World.’

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Spirituality, Success
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You are the maker of your own world. You make your world by what you do every day, by what you think about everyday, and by how you treat other people every day.

You make your life by one step at a time, by one word at a time, by thought at a time, by one relationship at a time. Where you are today does not happen by accident.

James Allen famously said, “What you are, so is your world.”

We think we can create positive things when we spend our time thinking about negative things. That will not happen. And it cannot happen. If you want to create a positive world, you must think in a positive way.

“No one is stopping you from moving forward in your life. You are stopping yourself from moving forward.”

Your world will not change if you don’t change. Your world will not attract good things to you if you don’t look for good things. You are the maker of your world.

What you do, so is your world.

What you think, so is your action.

You can’t live in the past and expect to enjoy today. If you want to enjoy today, live in today, not yesterday.

Live in today. Because today is an opportunity for you to change your world. We all have screwed up in the past. That is okay. Don’t let that stop you from creating a perfect world for yourself and your family.

“You are not moving fast enough in your life because you are still reliving your past failures.”

You can create a perfect world for yourself if you think about positive and perfect things. If you want a perfect world for yourself, think about perfect things. See yourself as a positive person. Do not focus on what you did wrong yesterday. Focus on what you are doing right now. It does not matter what it is. Just do it. Just create your own world.

You cannot create your perfect world if you are against yourself. If you are against yourself, no one can be for you. You cannot create your perfect world if you are not for yourself. You cannot move forward if you are not for yourself.

If you want people to help you, you must be willing and ready to help yourself. If not, nothing will change.

Is Blaming Others For Our Actions A Way Forward Or Backward?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Health & Well-Being, Personal Development, Personal Growth, Spirituality
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Why do we blame people for our actions? Is it the right thing to do? What do we do to stop blaming people for our actions?

When we blame people for our actions, we are not helping ourselves. We are hurting ourselves. We are giving our strengths away. We are stopping ourselves from learning new things.

In his book The Four Virtues of a Leader, Eric Kaufmann writes, “When you blame, you assign authority to the environment and stop focusing on the power of creating and shaping circumstances.” You don’t focus on your learning process when you blame others for your actions.

When you blame, you are giving your power away. You don’t take responsibility when you blame others. You don’t learn from your mistakes when you blame others. You don’t grow when you blame others. You are not helping others when you blame them for your own actions.

When you blame, you are not empowering yourself. But when you take responsibility for your actions, you are empowering yourself.

Robert Kiyosaki says, “When people are lame, they love to blame.” No matter what you are going through, don’t blame anyone for it. Take responsibility for your own actions. If you blame, you will continue to make the same mistakes.

If you want to grow, if you want to transform your life, do not blame someone else for your actions. Don,t blame yourself. Don’t blame your teacher. Don’t blame your boss for your mess. Don’t blame your government for your financial condition. Don’t blame your coworkers for your mess. Always take responsibility for your actions.

It is hard to take responsibility for our actions. But when we do, we are better of than not taking full responsibility. When you make a mistake, instead of blaming yourself or others for it, take full responsibility for your mistake.

People who take responsibility for their actions are more successful than those who blame others for their actions. Why is that? Because they learn from their mistakes. You cannot move forward if you do not take full responsibility for your actions. In her book Emotional Fitness: Discovering our Natural Healing Power, Janice Berger writes, “Our life is transformed when we can stop blaming.”

If you want to expand your life, stop blaming.

Are you ready to stop blaming others for your actions?