Tag: Making Sense

Your Inner Critic Is Not Against You

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth

‘Our inner critic hates when we set goals, it’s literally like, ‘Who is this bitch to tell me what to do.’- Lia Garvin

Listen to what you are hearing from your inner self. If you do not have the courage to hear yourself, to make peace with what you are hearing from your inner self, you are not going to know what is going on in your life.

Whatever your inner critic is telling you to do, do not just brush it aside. Listen to it. Explore it. If it makes sense to you, if it is going to increase your life, if it is going to make you a more valuable person, then go for it.

But if it is against you, your life, your dreams, then you don’t need to feed it. Let it go.

What Matters Most To You?

by Bright Osadiaye, posted in Personal Development, Personal Growth
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‘When you know what matters most, everything makes sense.’– Gary Keller

Success comes from knowing what matters most to us. And failure comes from not knowing what matters most to us.

If you are struggling to get something done, ask yourself, ‘Is this important to me?’

Before you jump into something that you have not done before, ask yourself, ‘Is this important to my dreams, to my goals?’ If it is not going to get you closer to your dreams, then don’t do it.

If you do, you are just wasting your time.

If something doesn’t make sense to you, it means it is not important to you. It doesn’t make sense to you. Because it doesn’t represent what you stand for. It doesn’t make you happy. It is not going to help you get better.

It is going to take you away from your real dreams. But when you know what you want, everything make sense to you.

When you are doing what matters to you in your life, everything makes sense to you.

When you are chasing your own dreams, everything makes sense to you.

When you are running your own race, when you are not interested in what others are doing, everything makes sense to you.

Do not try to be who you are not. When you try to fake it till you make it, nothing is going to make sense to you. And that is a total waste of time.