Allowing Yourself To Leave A Smoky Room

People Walking on Gray Floor
Photo by Tima Miroshnichenko

A “smoky” room is not for you. You are better than living in an environment where you cannot grow. Your purpose in your life is to grow. Your purpose is to live your life in your own way. If you are not living it, do something about it. The first place to start is to live your smoky room. Leave your comfortable room. Don’t stay there if you are not comfortable with yourself anymore. Don’t pretend. Don’t deceive yourself. It hurts to live in a place where there is no growth.

If you don’t leave, you are holding yourself back. If you don’t leave your smoky room, you are limiting your growth. If you don’t leave your smoky room, a place where there is no life, you are just existing. If you don’t leave your smoky room, know this: The quality of your life will be determined by your smoky room. Change is hard, but important. If you don’t change your smoky room now, when are you going to start living your true life? You can’t live it if you don’t change your smoky room.

Food for your life:

“If the room is smoky, if only moderately, I will stay; If there is too much smoke I will go. Remember this, the door is always open.” Epitectus

How To Live Your Own Life Well

Women in White Button-up Long-sleeved Top and Black Pants Sitting on White and Brown Bed
Photo by Andrea Piaquadio

Your life is your life. You should live it in your own way. You are not here to joke around. You are here on this earth to live your own life. If you are not living it now, when are you going to start living it?

You can’t live other people’s lives- only your own life. People want you to live their lives, but not yours. They want you to be different. They don’t want you to think for yourself. But no one is telling you to think for yourself. Why? So that they can control your life.

You must learn to think for yourself. You must learn to lead your life. You must learn to take charge of your life. You must be comfortable living your life. Do not apologize for your lifestyle. It is yours.

Believe in yourself. Don’t let people talk you out of your dreams. There are lots of people out there who are ready to tell you how to live your life, but no one is willing to tell you how to live your TRUE life.

To live your life, you must be a risk taker. Don’t just take risks, but take calculated ones. Don’t fear to experiment with what you don’t know. That is how we learn. That is how we get better at what we do. That is how we master our lives.

If you are afraid to take risks, then you are afraid to grow. There is no growth without risks. Don’t let fear master you. You must do whatever is within your power to master fear. If you can master fear, you are free to live your life.

Whatever it is you want to do, do it with all your might. Do not quit. Even if you are not getting what you want, don’t quit. Just do things differently, or you can change where you are going to. Do not blame anyone for where you are. It is your life. Live it well.