What Is The Secret?

What is your secret? What is your secret to success? Do you have one? If you do not have one, then how are you going to get to where you want to be?

What are you going to do to get there? Because if you want to get what you want, you must do something to get what you want. Because what you want is not going to happen by accident.

It is not going to come to you. It is not going to meet you where you are. But the thing is that what you want wants you. What you are looking for is looking for you.

To get there, to achieve it, to achieve your dreams, to make your life, to make your people proud, to make yourself proud of who you are becoming, something must happen.

So what is the secret? Is there a secret? Yes, there is a secret to success, to growth. The secret is work. The secret is self-love. The secret is focus. The secret is gratitude. The secret is YOU.

Why you? Because you know what you want. Because you know what you do not want. Because your life is your responsibility. So to be successful, to reach your destination, you must focus on what is important to you. That is the secret.

What Will Change Your Life

‘There is no greater illusion than

thinking the accomplishment of

some goal will change your life.

What will change your life is who

you become in the process of going for it.’- Brad Stulberg

Life is more than just one accomplishment. Life is more than what you are doing. It is more than what you do not yet have.

Life is about getting better every day. It is about getting outside of our comfort zone. It is about doing what matters. Because doing what matters is what life is about.

‘If what you are doing doesn’t make you happy, then it is not worth doing. If the people in your life are not there to support your growth, then they shouldn’t be there.’

Results don’t change lives. Lessons change lives. Whatever it is that you are doing, whether it is easy or not, whether you like it or not, pay attention to it.

Pay attention to what works. Pay attention to what is going on within you. Pay attention to what you are becoming. Because what you are becoming, your growth, your character development, is much more important than the results.

If you don’t focus on the process, the results don’t matter. But if you are brave enough to enjoy the process, to live the journey, other things will take care of themselves.