‘Your success and happiness will ultimately be molded by your decisions, not by temporary conditions happening around you.’- David Cottrell
Whatever you want to experience in your life, you can make it happen. You do not need a college degree to create your own life. All you need is courage.
Some people are not happy because they do not have the courage to decide. If you want to be happy, you must choose happiness. You must choose you. You must choose the right thoughts. And you must believe in your life.
Decide. Decide today that you are not going to give in to whatever it is that is going on around you, that you are responsible for your happiness, that you are responsible for your success, and that you have what it takes to get yourself back up.
That is all you need. Why not give yourself permission to live your life, to face your fears, to challenge yourself, and to embrace a new mindset?
Worrying is going to happen. It not going to go away. That is life. The big question is what are you going to do to stop it?
Why are you worrying? Why worry? Is it about you? Or is it about the world around you? Whether it is about you, whether it is about the world around you, worrying about things will always be there.
When you worry, you are NOT worrying about yourself; you are worrying about what is going on around you. You are not worry about your life. You are not worrying about where you are at in your journey. You are not worrying about what you are going to give to your kids for breakfast. You are not even worrying about what you are going to do to get to your next level.
You are worrying about things that will never happen, things that you cannot control. You are worrying about what your friends are going to say about your new project. You are worrying about what your boss is going to do about your job. You are worrying about failure. You are worrying about what other people are going to say about your success. And you are worrying about what you are going to wear tomorrow.
Look, if you want to live a successful life, a meaningful life, you must focus on what you can control, not on what you cannot control.
Whatever you can control, control it. Whatever you cannot control, let it go. That is life. Life is about letting go.
What you can control is up to you. What you cannot cantrol is not up to you. What you can change is up to you. What you cannot change is not up to you.
What is up to you? Your thoughts are up to you. Your feelings are up to you. Your emotions are up to you. And your actions are up to you.
What is not up to you? Other people’s feelings are not up to you. You cannot do anything about them. Other people’s actions are not up to you. Again, you cannot do anything about them.
Above all, your success, your happiness, is up to you. Because you can do a whole lot about it.
Instead of worrying about what is never going to happen, why not focus on what you can do right now to change things? Why not? Why worry?
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