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How To Face Adversity

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Friedrich Nietzsche famously said, “That which does not kill us makes us stronger.” Life is not supposed to be without adversity. When you face adversity, when things are not working out for you, when you are struggling to make things happen, do not get frustrated. Remain calm. Focus on what you are doing. Focus on what is going well for you. Do not let temporary difficulties stop you from doing your best work.

Henry Thomas Hamblin said, “It is not possible to have an easy life and, if it were possible, then life would not be worth living, for the sole object of life is the building of character and the attainment of wisdom through experience.”

Adversity advances us. It takes us from where we are to where we want to be. We grow when we overcome obstacles. We grow when we overcome adversity. We grow when we face our fears. We grow when we stretch our muscles.

And if we want to go somewhere, we must face obstacles. We must do what we don’t want to do. We must get out of our comfort zone. Because there is no growth in the comfort zone. It is just that- comfort zone.

When you face difficulties, do not run away from them. Explore what they have in store for you. Explore what you can learn from them. Explore how you can use them to change your life. Explore how you can use them to improve yourself. Without self improvement, you cannot change your situation. To improve yourself is to improve your life. And to improve your life is to live, to achieve greatness.

Do not worry about failure. Worry about improving yourself, your life. And you can’t do that if you are not willing to swim with adversity, if you are not willing to get your hands dirty.

Get your hands dirty. Life will always get your hands dirty. How you choose to handle it is your choice. Because life is all about making choices. So if you want to face adversity, you must be willing to get your hands dirty.

Why You Should Stop Worrying About What People Think Of You

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Photo by Keenan Constance

Love yourself enough to live your life. Do not worry about other people’s opinions. They are just opinions. If you don’t want people to talk about you, then do not do anything. If you want to grow, you must do your own thing. You must leave naysayers behind. Do not worry about them. Let them worry about themselves. Because you have an appointment with your future.

If you focus on what other people think of you, you will miss your life. You will miss the moment. Instead of worrying yourself about naysayers, why not do what Charles Dickens said. He said, “Reflect upon your present blessings- of which every man has many- not on your past misfortunes, of which all men have some.” Do not worry too much about what you are going through. Instead of beating yourself up, why not count your blessings, why not love yourself even more, why not celebrate your life? Why not?